I got a call today from a nursing home rehab they may be moving my dad to. The lady said, since this is expected to be only a 21 day stay his insurance will cover it & there will be nothing owed. She also said that even if there was any bill, they wouldn't be able to hold me responsible. (My dad has no POA & I'm his only child.) Since he is independent still she was going to call & talk to him too, but had wanted to talk to me to find out about his situation (how he ended up needing rehab). She asked if I'd consider being his sponsor, which had nothing to do with finances, but it would make me the contact person if anything happened while he's there, or when he's ready to leave. I hate to be such a skeptic, but I wanted to know for sure if that's true.
There were some good people there, but the administration was not up to par. They were understaffed and overworked. Many times a nurse or an aide would take ten or fifteen minutes or longer to come to the room after I had rung for help. It was a pretty unpleasant experience all the way around.
Rehab is for the birds! It is not what you think it is. :(
There can be a wide range of benefits from rehab, which is why it's important that family and loved ones keep an eye on what's going on and make it clear that they're there to advocate for their loved one. If your loved one is in a bad rehab, step in and get them moved.
Your profile does not give any background on what circumstances surrounds your caregiving of your father. If he is lucid and able to make his own decisions, then there is no need to worry about you being responsible for his financials. Look over the rehab admissions forms CAREFULLY if they request that you "sign" him in. Your father should sign his own forms so he and ONLY HE is financially responsible to the rehab center. Normally, Medicare will pay for this rehab stay for the first 20 days (I believe). Thereafter, I believe there is a co-pay.
Nursing home rehab facilities are fully aware of these Medicare regulations and should communicate them to your father and you clearly if you are there when he is transferred and admitted to their facility. Make sure everyone (hospital discharge planner, rehab, you and your father) are all on the same page. YOU never want to sign an admission paper without fully reading it as you may then be financially responsible. As long as your father can sign himself, let him do it.
As far as HIPAA regulations go, yes, it can be a pain in the butt when hospitals/doctors get really picayune about it. However, I have never been in a hospital when my mother was in the ER or admitted, that the hospital staff asked me "Are you on your mother's HIPAA form?" I was there as her concerned daughter and of course, they would answer my questions. I wasn't asked for identification. This HIPAA stuff has really gotten out of hand. I can see in cases of major family conflict that hospitals would enforce this law (or when unknown individuals CALL the hospital asking about a patient, then of course, they will not give out any information). However, when you are an only child there with your father, I doubt the hospital staff is going to give you any problems finding out what's going on with your father.
If you have sibling conflict (this is not your case) and children are "fighting" in front of staff, then of course, they are going to enforce the HIPAA law. Another situation would be if your father intentionally told the staff NOT to release his health information to you. Then he would be the one to file a complaint against the hospital/rehab staff. This doesn't sound like this is the case here.
Because this part of caregiving may be "new" to you (as far as rehab, hospital discharges, etc.), it is normal to be skeptic. But from what you wrote, I wouldn't be alarmed and I would be grateful that the hospital/rehab staff are concerned enough to keep you in the loop.
With all due respect to Willow's response, not all rehab facilities have understaffed, overworked and half-hearted staff. Of course, a child's one-on-one PT therapy given at home is the ideal situation but not everyone can be there 24/7 with a parent during PT. If you (as your father's caregiver) can be fully engaged in the rehab process and are monitoring his progress in the rehab facility, then that is the ideal situation. That's why I feel it's important to get to know the hospital/rehab staff and let them know you are a team working for ultimately a good rehab outcome. Advocating for your parent is always ideal.
I wish him well in his recovery.
I hope that I don't regret it, but since I didn't get any responses before the time came, I talked to some people from my church who had loved ones that had been in the nursing home. I was told that they had been sponsors for their loved ones & in one case a neighbor, & they had never been financially responsible, even after the person passed.
So far this seems like a good place..,old building, but good staff. I've heard lots of good things about it.