Hello,
I am looking for resources regarding my father who recently passed due to neglect at an A.L. facility in Frisco, TX. I have contacted many legal forums and it seems like no one wants to take on this case of nursing home abuse. I need to not only have legal representation, I need to have as many resources on a national level as possible. My father is dead because due to bedsores and malnutrition and I am destroyed. Thank you for your help.
On this we site you can get an opinion but not a legal judgement. Seek legal services and do your homework in collecting evidence, not heresay
No, I didn't notice that his back was completely chewed up like 3rd degree burns. He was laying on his back and I would visit him every other day and ask him what that odor was. He was on a lot of heavy pain meds, so he never complained about it until it was too late. His toe also needed to be amputated but wound care and the hospital just put iodine to dry it out.
Dad insisted he didn't want his toe amputated, but once again, everyone stated he was competent enough to make his own medical decisions.
Your reply is a bit harsh and based on an assumption. What I posted was NOT hearsay. I encourage you to read the replies for everyone who responded. The death certificate stated the cause of death which was Sepsis and Unstageable Wounds. That is NOT hearsay. Likewise, I DID do my research before posting my question which is why I posted my question. Just because I stated I needed some guidance or resources does not mean I did not do my homework. I've already contacted the TX HHS and they were cited. Again, not hearsay. This actually happened.
Finally, if a resident refuses to get out of bed that is their choice, but the AL does have an obligation to let the family and/or doctor know. This AL and the others did have people that would hand feed them. My father had a very shaky hand which would cause him to get more food on his shirt than his mouth. Before being admitted to the AL the DON determines what level of caregiving he needs based on HIPPA released medical records and an in person examination. The AL's are regulated, which again explains why they were cited. They are licensed by the state. Not sure why you said that.
You cared for him at home? Were you very close? Did you feel OK with the transition to AL?
Have you explored grief councelling at all? Or someone else trained in to listen?
Your profile lists Dad's many ailements, including Alzheimer's Disease. That is progressive. People lose ability to swallow, chew, walk & move. Many/most will become malnutritioned & bedbound by avanced stage (unless they die earlier from other reasons).
Unfortiunately neglect can happen. I don't discount your personal situation. Very very sad.
However, I'd like to share this in case you see anything of yourself:
I have met many family members that had not been educated on the progression of Alzeimer's, other dementias or life limiting progressive diseases. Their language included phrases like "He was fine! Then he died", "He was so healthy & strong. I don't understand how this happened".
The reality of their ill, frail loved one was very different to their thoughts.
Was your father properly placed, for his many conditions?
A few years ago, I read that doctors are rethinking bed sores, that they could develop as a reflection of what's going on inside the body. Unless you can demonstrate that Dad wasn't properly cared for, there may not be anything for DHHC to work with.
If attorneys aren't biting, then they likely don't see a case here that will bring in enough money to make it worth their while. It's heartbreaking, but it's a fact. Lawyers will run you about $400/hour and up, plus even if they take it on contingency, you'll be paying out of pocket up front for all the administrative costs, filing costs, expert witnesses ($1,000/hour), court reporters to take depositions, copies -- you name it -- not to mention the cost of the private autopsy. You're talking tens of thousands of dollars before you see a courtroom in three years or so.
Losing a parent unexpectedly is devastating, I'm sure, but don't go too deep down this rabbit hole instead of addressing your real grief. If you can't prove your case to the satisfaction of an attorney, find a therapist to help you let that go and to process your grief.
With regards to attorney fees, yes they can be quite exorbitant, and I have already consulted a few that didn't tell me they weren't going to take my case because I would be going down a rabbit hole. They stated that the Governor put a cap on medical malpractice lawsuits so that the max recovery amount is $250k and it's not worth their time or resources.
My grief has and continues to be worked through by a support system that consists of concerned friends, church and my fiancé...all while I plan a wedding. I planned the Memorial Service, wrote the Obituary and gave the Eulogy. However, there is no amount of time that will take away the fact my father died unnecessarily and without a shred of dignity.
You have, I see now, been to some attorneys.
Sad to say their advice is solid.
No attorney will take this case on contingency.
The law measures blame in terms of MONEY. It's the American way. So in the case of a YOUNG person badly injured but still ALIVE, a young person who was making a solid 7 figure salary and is now disabled, in need of care over a lifetime, a person who clearly/measurably would never have got what he got had people clearly in charge done their job?
There's a case there. And the award under the law will be weighted by the amount allowable for ongoing care of the injured patient.
The limits you describe for recovery under the law are fact. And that's why so few malpractice cases now go forward. They are costly for the attorney in terms of research, disclosure, expert witnesses. There are limits as you enumerated them in your response for recovery, and without need for ongoing lifetime care it is's simply not worth the time/expense of the case. There will not be enough in damages to refill the coffers.
If a malpractice attorney says he cannot take your case on contingency, then, in the words of Handel on the Law "You've got no case".
People often learn this the hard way, so thanks for explaining it so well in your responses.
I am, again, so terribly sorry for your loss. No amount of money can ever comfort you for such a loss, but the time may have come to make a choice as to whether it is best for you now to move on with your life, or not.
Being negligent doesn’t always turn into justice for the victim, unfortunately . We learned that with my husband’s accident case. It cost us money and my husband permanent pain and moderate loss of function in his hand and did not get reimbursed for any medical costs, nor get any award for pain .
Like Alva said if it was a young person losing earning potential , there is money to be gotten . My husband is older and is able to do his job still after his accident , although it takes longer and is more difficult for him . A lawyer took my husbands case and still lost .
It certainly is your prerogative to try to pursue a case. Let us know what happens . Maybe you will be lucky and win.
I’m so sorry this happened to your Dad. It’s devastating to you . I would go to grief counseling to come to peace with it . Your Dad is in a better place now.
You need to find out if those bedsores were there when the AL admitted him and any pressure points. If so, the problem is where he was before being admitted to the AL. If Hospice was involved at the get go and there were sores, their responsbility was to dress them not the ALs. Hospice dresses them but they don't have to cure them? Just keep the client comfortable and pain free. I doubt if a dying body will heal anyway. Being on Hospice he was not allowed to go to the Hospital. If he was sent, Hospice would stop. And, are you sure they were not Kennedy ulcers that form during the dying process. The malnutrition caused by his body shutting down and him not being able to swallow? You cannot feed someone who's body is shutting down, the body no longer digests.
My daughter was in a lawsuit because a family was suing the SNF for bedsores. My daughter was called in to prove that the sores were there when the patient was admitted to the SNF. So, the family was suing the wrong facility, they should have sued the hospital where he got the sores.
"It stated the death was due to Sepsis, Bacteria and Unstageable Wounds." Alva is a Nurse so knows lots more than I do but what I read about Unstageable wounds it means that under the eschar the wound was healing. Bed sores happen especially in bedridden people. Some times though with the best care they may not heal completely. Especially if a person is diabetic which seems ur Dad was with a lot of health problems. My friend lost the lower part of her leg because of a sore on her foot that would not heal because she was a juvenile diabetic. I just lost a friend who blacked out and hit his head on concrete. It caused swelling and bleeding on the brain. His wife was told his age was against him...he was 73 and eventually passed.
I am so sorry for your loss. I can see though why a lawyer won't take this on. Too many things were involved. Where did the bedsores originate? Once hospice is involved, no extreme measures are taken. Could Dad had gone to the Hospital and the sepsis be taken care of? Just too many variables.
I don't see how anyone could definitively put the blame for his death on anything but his own health issues, and of course juries are extremely fickle so barring a cut-and-dried case, I would be too optimistic about the outcome
No lawsuit will fix that hurt.
You mentioned your Father had many illessss & had been circling in the health system for 3.5 years. It was not possible to bring him home.
"died unnecessarily" or he just wore out?
I relatives that left this life twisted in pain, bloated with cancer, wasted or faded by disease. I don't consider it was undignified at all. It was life.
What would a "dignified" death look like to you?
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