My father lives with me; however my brother wants to sell his home car and place him in a nursing home, which I oppose. My brother found out he fell and bruised his arm. This was found by having my father strip down to his under ware in front of his wife and daughter, and then he took photos. This to me is abuse and inappropriate. Any advise?
Why is your brother so hostile?
Are you living in Dad's home and using his car?
Sounds like time to document what happens to dad, all accidents, etc. Cover your backside.
If you r his caregiver, why is brother worried about Dad? Hope he doesn't think he will get any money from the sale of the house/car. Children are not entitled to assets when parent is still living.