Hi. What if someone jettisoned assets 3 years ago and need care before the lookback is over? Everyone keeps saying they have to pay, but what if they have NO MONEY or assets and their kids are not wealthy, either? I have never heard of seniors out on the street, so how do they get care if they need help before look back expires and they are destitute? Thank you
Where did the money go? If it was gifted to family members, those family members should be expected to provide care, yes?
If the person needs to go into a care facility they will be able to. It is true that the state can sue family members who have accepted cash and assets from the senior in the care facility. The facility the elder is in will usually be awarded conservatorship over the elder and their property.
Yes curious, why were assets jettisoned leaving this person with nothing. Sorry to say, this is what happens when people try to hide money from Medicaid. Medicaid is not guaranteed.
During the penalty period, the patient just has to stay in the home and get care there since there's none of her money left to self pay and spend it down.
If you or anyone in the family has an idea of what money was spent in years 4,5, go find it. Check bank statements, Check tax returns, See when registrations for car/boat/RV/etc were last paid. Was the item sold at that time?
Consult with an elder law attorney or care planner for ideas of how to find how money was spent 4 and 5 years ago.
Sit with siblings and construct a time line - 5 years ago, where did each person live/personal situation. Might the elder have 'helped somebody out' without a record of it or without telling anyone else.
It is a serious situation, Medicaid is likely to push hard to get all the information, and if there was 'gifting' of funds or valuable items to anyone, that person needs to pay it back to the elder.
Good luck.
Oddly enough I have also heard of folks cashing in all of their assets and living on cruise ships. They go from one cruise to the other. How in the world does that work when they get to a point of needing care?
Sorry Okrad1, I wish I had suggestions for you instead of posing more questions.
The Medicaid program is not unreasonable when it comes to something like a senior spending all their money. It depends on the case.
My father who was very good and careful with money all his life went through every dime he ever had between the ages of 86 and 90. He was totally independent, enjoying robust health and not a moment of dementia.
He met a woman, an indigent alcoholic half his age and he spent it all on her.
Then he had a stroke. Medicaid was very understanding of our circumstances, and he was approved for a waiver voucher because none of the money was going to be recovered.
Medicaid is reasonable. Nursing homes are not. They are the ones who will intimidate and threaten a POA and families. Nursing homes blame Medicaid for their unacceptable behavior and business practices. It's not Medicaid. It's their own insatiable greed. The people at Medicaid were very reasonable to us. They understood that there was no money, and they weren't going to get blood from a stone. Nursing homes think you can. They will threaten and shakedown a family until they start emptying out their own bank accounts and mortgaging their homes to pay for an elderly parent's care in a nursing home. No family has to do this.
Depending on where and when the service was the help could be a little or it could be a LOT.
If this person is a Veteran contact the local Veterans Assistance Commission and if you can find any discharge papers bring them with you so that they can help determine what and how much help the VA can offer.
There are local services that might help. Check with Area Agency on Aging. Your local Senior Center and ask if they have a Social Worker that could help.
So, Looks like whomever spent mom's money will need to take care of mom for a couple years then try again.
If mom's husband was in the Military she could qualify for up to 30 hrs a week Care help.
If she ever has to be admitted in to a Hospital, then once she is ready to leave, just let the Hospital know that she doesn't have a safe place to go back to and needs to go to a Nursing Home.
But, from persinal experience. Nursing Homes are are Awful and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
They are all understaffed and ignore the help button and you can be sitting in your own urine and feeces for an hour or more.
Sad but True.
You'd think with the money they charge it would be at least an ok place.
It's a lonely, cold, scary place to have to live out the rest of your life, but you can't really call it living. More like existing til you die.
Lover ones deserve better.
Not easy at all being a Caregiver but parents devote their lives toward their children for years so when it comes down to pay back and helping your parent when the time comes, most just ship them off to a Nursing Home.
Don't let the Nursing Home fool you, they are all the same, some just look nicer on the outside.
They all tell you what you want to hear as they're making a Sale and want your business.
Prayers
I don't understand this. In my mind, the caregiving for the elder should be done ONLY by the ones who got the money.
My Situation: Back in 2013, my mother entered a nursing home in CA following a hip injury from a fall. We living alone in CA, she could not return home to me. Fortunately, my family moved her up to OR State just before Mom went on OR Medicaid instead of CA Medicaid which would have taken our condo away from me after her death, leaving me homeless. Much more humane rules in Oregon. Only after sale of my CA property or death will Oregon Medicaid take out part of assets that were paid for my mother's care in OR State.
Seniors do end up living rough or in homeless shelters, if they cannot afford to pay for their own housing. Or access reduced rate housing. (long waiting lists and lots of documentation of income/assets/spending for these, as well.)
1. the elder is living in a NH with Medicaid beds AND has actually applied for LTC Medicaid AND has gotten a determination from Medicaid with a transfer penalty placed against them? So you have a set # of days of ineligiblity due to transfer penalty.
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2. is this theoretical, like what happens if I can’t locate documents before 2020 as you have last 2 years?
On #1, what will probably happen is, as the NH also will receive CC’d ineligiblity letter from the State, NH will require someone in the family to sign off a new financial responsibility contract & ACH or credit card payment done to have the elder continue to live there. And if elder has not signed off to have NH become representative payee for their SS $, then press elder / POA to do this as well. Hopefully while elder was Medicaid Pending they did a copay of SS or other retirements to the NH, so something has been paid. You can attempt to negotiate the amount, like get NH to accept payment under Medicaid rate rather than private pay. If elder is an easier care resident, NH might do this.
Now if family just becomes all MIA on dealing w the elder; NH can go hardball…. They send you / POA a 30 Day Notice and it’s cc’d to the State, APS and a probono legal clinic. If you still do squat, then NH contacts APS & APS in turn gets the court to do an emergency ward of the state & elder becomes a ward & gets court appointed guardian who then can get elder into whatever NH they can in the state. That guardian has alot of authority, so if the transfer penalty was that $ went to the kids or house transferred for zero or way under FMV to a kid, the guardian can work w APS to place charges on taking advantage of a vulnerable adult against whomever got the gifting. Law enforcement & the DA gets involved. It can get beyond ugly.
At my moms 1st NH, lady across the hall had son who sold his on LTC Medicaid moms house after she entered the NH. He pocketed the $. All property info on state database & Medicaid found out & she became ineligible w a penalty. Medicaid also did a clawback on payments to the NH. NH sent bills to Sonny. Sonny ignored them. Would be huddled conversations in the hallway w billing & administration when he visited. One day, I went in and there was security, police, Sonny & staff in a shouting match by the entry. LSS the lady was made a ward & moved to another NH; Sonny not told where either. I cannot imagine how beyond awful it was for the mom, she was super sweet. NH also filed a suit against him as he had signed his name on the admissions documents. Word was the guardian also filed for fraud & vulnerable adult stuff against Sonny as well.
2. if you have past 2 years of their financials and you have a good solid POA you can try to do your best Nancy Drew or you hire a forensic accountant to do a recreation back to 2016 - 2017.
The info is there… like you get your elder to contact SSA and any other retirements or pensions to get details as to income paid for the missing years; IRS gets contacted to get old taxes. Courthouse records get researched and recordings get downloaded and printed for any real property in thier name &/or thier old spouses name. Also dl old divorce decrees and any probate filing on deceased spouses. Banks keep records, you just have to know how to use your POA authority to get them to give you 5 years or one fixed month for 5 years back. Deep dive forensic accounting get done all the time by more pit bull divorce attorneys. Believe me there will be a elder law atty who knows & works with forensic CPA types.
The financial past can be recreated. But if you find that there was gifting, well personally, I’d turn over everything - even if ominous- and let the atty review to see what the options might be. I would not try to DIY dealing with Medicaid if this is more than a 2-3 mo transfer penalty period involved.
1800.....so my advice is DO NOT SEND ANYONE TO A NH AND IF U SIMPLY DO NOT WANT TO DEAL WITH THE ELDER... RENT THE HOUSE IF THEY OWN ONE A PUT THAT TOWARD THE PAYMENT FOR AL..WHICH AVERAGE I THINK SHOULD BE 3500 TO 4000 A MO...SO RENTAL FOR THEIR HOME PLUS THEIR SOCIAL SHOULD TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING..If America does not take care of its elders as they do
in socialized countries....England,Finland,Canada...dont feel like a criminal
as every seminar that protects assetts from NH is a sham...its normal to expect Medicaid to pickup this issue with the elder...unless the value of the house is upwards to a million or so....meaning the NH are set up to get what they can...Ill never forget the hospital asking before sending Dad off to the rehab if he owned his home!....frankly looking back I would have kept him home under a fig tree without underwear sittting on a lounger...of course weather permitting....what I found was once they get in the NH no one knows what they are doing anyway unless u go everyday...if they get so old that they refuse the structured environment and they are not given water or have their diaper changed......which is what goes on people...its better at home no UTI's from no diaper change,no fussing with the government for money from working class honest people whos only crime was to buy their house...Im not talking about CEO's who have left their wives millions and have a stock portfolio....this is the best consumer for these places....
I did ask a lawyer about can medicaid sue to recover and they said there are very vague filial laws but they are never enforced.
However, know that all siblings are VERY engaged and feel like many of you here. I also agree that the guilt and shame a senior is supposed to carry for wanting to give their hard earned things to their kids is a unique shame only America places on their elders.
Every other 1st world country would never make a senior have to bankrupt themselves to get care. It's incredibly cruel, unspeakably so.
I hope you are all doing well today and hugs to all and again THANK YOU for all the different answers and so many things to think about.
We, unfortunately, found that what most elder law attorney's that aren't certified know, is everything that is readily available on the AGs website.
Elders are a HUGE business and due diligence is required when choosing one to help you.