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It is not easy to live with someone you love who doesn't want to engage with you anymore. Ask him what you could do together besides watching television all day. You need someone too and you should tell him these things. See what he says and then move on with what the answers are and what you want to do from there. My husband lost part of his left leg in May of 2019 and our life has changed so much and he is so moody. I take it one day at a time because that is all we can do now. If you love him then you will make it work with help from family or a counselor but don't suffer alone. Remember you are not alone okay.
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Memoryhelp1 Nov 2020
Sopened with memory loss may have no ability remaining to communicate on that level unfortunately. She needs to be abe to understand and assess where he is in this journey and relate to him at that point
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I can help. I am a dementia care specialist with over 17 years of experience in memory care. I make in home engagement kits for caregivers/spouses to use with their loved one in the home. They come with all needed supplies and instructions
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Omg I'm the same. I'm feeling very very down at the moment. My husband thinks more of his mates than he does of me. I haven't been over the doorstep in a long time like everyone else. Now things are relaxed Abit he's constañtly making arrangements for nights out with his friends and if I suggest going out for tea his mother has to come so I don't bother. He spends all his time on his phone when he's not in work and when he comes home from work he goes to bed at 8pm
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Unitetogether Jul 2021
Sorry Alexander01, but I don't see why you put up with that. It's like he's living a singles life instead of being married. Sorry had to give my opinion. But, that is not right. Always going out with his friends?? You need to "break out" too..
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Did you try to watch something together that you both like JoycePrice? that is what my husband and I use to do. Now he isn't interested in watching TV, eating, or that conversation of meaning. All he does is SLEEP 97% of the time. Don't think I can or want to live like this anymore. At least your trying to think of something you both can do together at home. I'm not even caring anymore. If they don't seem to care, maybe I shouldn't be speaking about your husband, why should we. We can't go downward. I noticed this post was last year.. Hope things are better now, or/and you made a change. Take care
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