How often to change diapers (not soiled)?

Question

How often to change diapers (not soiled)?

Follow

Share

Hi Everyone,
My patient has dementia but she's still very much independent in going to the bathroom. I wipe her everyday to make sure she does not leave behind any poop stains. She doesn't soil her diapers and so I'm asking, in this situation how often should I change it to avoid bacterial infections like a UTI.

Adult Diapers Alzheimer's & Dementia Hygiene Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)

20 Answers

Most
Helpful Newest
First Oldest
First

I was not changing my husbands disposable briefs everyday until he developed a UTI. I read that your LO can get UTI's from the disposable underpants. The UTI was not caused by the disposable but I did not want to take the change of it happening again and needing to do a urine test and so forth. So I started changing everyday.
Sometimes he leaks a little so this is the best decision for him.
I read to change everyday if you can afford it. That is not a problem for us and well worth the peace of mind.
So I as I say to friends who are caregivers..make the best decision you can.

Helpful Answer (0)

Reply to NancyLU

Report

My husband is bedridden, so he relieves himself in bed. To avoid UTI and bedsores, I check him every 3 hrs throughout the day, even during the night. If he’s wet, I change him. There’s no rule that says you have to change your client every so many hours. Check on here every 3 hours and then change her if needed.

Helpful Answer (0)

Reply to Worriedspouse

Report

Yakima , my mom wears a depends all day and all night . She typically pees one overnight and changes and cleans up in the morning. She wears one during the day just in case . I have worried about the moisture and tried to get her to wear underwater during the day to allow the area to breathe . She is more comfortable wearing the depends . I’m not going to fight with my Mom ( her mental health is important to me and keeping her calm is important to her ) , she’s healthy and I monitor the area for changes when we shower together . I think your question is one many of us have . The people talking down to you for asking are rude . I appetite the answers from those who are actually trying to support the question and not belittle. Thank you for asking .

Helpful Answer (0)

Reply to ChristineS

Report

Morning, afternoon, bedtime & check during night just to be on safe side…I’d check when I usually get up to go to bathroom 🚽

Helpful Answer (1)

Reply to CaregiverL

Report

If she is using the diaper simply as underpants "just in case," if it's clean, I would expect to change it as frequently as underpants; i.e., once a day, or perhaps twice if there is a sheer other than when getting up in the morning. It might be more economical to use clothe diapers so that if they weren't soiled they could be washed and reused.

Helpful Answer (2)

Reply to Igloocar

Report

yakima: Although you can check your patient's brief routinely, you do not change it if it's not damp, e.g. similarly you do not don new underpants every time you use the toilet.

Helpful Answer (4)

Reply to Llamalover47

Report

How often do you change your underwear? Why should she be different.

Helpful Answer (2)

Reply to Sample

Report

Andwer to aging care email about incontinence. 6-16-24 …

I am almost 84 and have worn a 3 layer pad combination for the last several years even tho im not “really” incontinent … yet. im just using them for possible protection.

the following is a description of the layers for those who are saying WHAT ?!

first is the pad. Over that is a paper towel followed width-wise and placed length-wide on top. Pulled almost but not quite to the back end of the pad. Finally a thin liner laid on top about half the length of the paper towel and extending to my underpants to keep the paper towel from falling off and down my pant leg.

Surprisingly not as uncomfortable as it sounds.

Im only incontinent enough to maybe have to change only the paper towel or liner occasionally.

It basically depends, i think, on my bowel rolling onto the appropriate other part.

I like doing it that way to save money since i usually need to change only the paper towel or liner not the whole thing.

Im also using hand sanitizer when i go into the bathroom and washing my hands with soap when i leave. I dont have to worry about where my hands have been when i go in and dont worry about spreading germs when i come out.

All this amounts to is how cognizant a person is and the level of incontinence.

Helpful Answer (5)

Reply to Betsysue2002

Report

You are so correct that being cognizant here is a real game changer. We can, in life, come up with all sorts of tricks for our convenience if our brains are well enough to reason it out!

(4)

Report

First, please don’t call them diapers. It’s demeaning. Call them briefs. Why are they being used for someone who is not incontinent? If it’s precautionary, check to ensure she doesn’t need changing at least three times daily. If they’re actually not needed, stop using them and replace with an incontinence pad.

Helpful Answer (6)

Reply to RLWG54

Report

Definitely. When my late husband needed Depends, I told him I'd bought him new gray underwear. I would never have called them diapers.

(2)

Report

It prob is soiled with urine as well
i guess depends on your budget
I would have thought morning and evening

Helpful Answer (2)

Reply to Jenny10

Report

I'm 84, 85 next month. I have incontinence, both urine and feces (ugh). I wear heavy incontinent pads every day. If I soil with feces, I change pads. If my underwear is soiled, I change that too. I am capable of knowing when I must urinate, or defecate. Many seniors with incontinence and memory loss don't know when this will happen. I do not use incontinent underwear, just the super pads. If I soil on one day, I do not always have to change a pad during that day unless it does in fact h have urine or feces on it. . I do not wear the incontinent underwear for this reason. They are expensive. i am small, but the pads are big. They are cheaper than the incontinent underwear. I buy boxes of 100 or so of pads. Went from small pads to super large thick pads. Cheaper than the incontinent underwear. I change pads every day or during the day if I soil during the day. If you are taking care of the woman, you can handle a system like I use. Personally, I would be sure to soil my legs if I took off the underwear. I do not do that wearing the super pad. I do not have to change underwear during the day, just the super pad.

Helpful Answer (8)

Reply to JosAgingCare

Report

You can also use scissors to carefully cut away the sides of the soiled briefs allowing you to fold them over any mess and avoid spreading it on to your body and make disposing easier too. I do this for my 99-year-old mother. She is thankfully not totally incontinent and if I ask every couple of hours we can usually get her to the toilet. Regardless, we change her briefs a minimum of twice daily and also whenever there is any urine leakage or spots of feces in the briefs. It just ensures that bacteria is reduced and avoids infections, especially UTIs. UTIs are a serious concern!!
The briefs are expensive and I constantly search for “deals” to lessen the burden. But keeping her healthy and comfortable and her skin healthy is worth it. It’s terrible that it’s not a covered or subsidized expense given what she still pays for supplemental health insurance!!!

(2)

Report

My wife wears disposable underwear due to occasional incontinence which we change when needed or twice a day. I am not familiar with the term, "pull-ups." Could someone clarify the differences among disposable underwear, diapers, and pull-ups? Thank you.

Helpful Answer (4)

Reply to rhcarle

Report

I would say pull-ups is another term for disposable underwear. You just pull them down to use toilet and pull them up when done…just as you would regular underwear,

Diapers usually have tape tabs that you use to open and close them to chg or remove them. It’s a little confusing because lots of people don’t like the term diapers. They say it’s demeaning, so what ever style you wear, the kind that pull up or the tab closure kind they prefer to call them adult disposable briefs or disposable underwear.

(8)

Report

She should be checked at least every 2 hours.
If the brief (aka diaper) is dry and clean no need to change it. I would change it if it is damp from sweat. I would also change it if it appears that the filler inside is bunched or moved around a bit.

Given the scenario that you have given, you don't change your own underwear after you have gone to the bathroom so the same would apply to your patient.

Helpful Answer (5)

Reply to Grandma1954

Report

Here's a chance for Depends to put a color scale on their package. Does she have fungus.

Helpful Answer (1)

Reply to AdVinn

Report

I am also wondering if "soiled" only refers to poop. If they are wet they should be changed as sion as someone notices they are wet. If they are both dry and unsoiled, change them each day like regular underwear, but as others are asking, if they are both dry and unsoiled, why is she wearing diapers?

Helpful Answer (5)

Reply to RedVanAnnie

Report

Use pull-ups . If they don’t get soiled I would put a new one am and pm when dressing and undressing for bed . They do tend to make one sweat . I would also wash the area with each change .

Helpful Answer (7)

Reply to waytomisery

Report

I was assuming she was continent of urine most of the time as well , and that you were asking how often to change if it wasn’t wet either , perhaps I was wrong .

(2)

Report

See 1 more reply

Change like underwear. Perhaps you could add a panty liner.

My mom wore pull-ups to keep from having to rush and risk a fall. She never knew when she might not make it so wore the pull-ups.

Helpful Answer (7)

Reply to 97yroldmom

Report

Seriously you two 🙄, when a lot of people refer to soiled diapers they mean those that are brown, and urine is wet it isn't brown.

I would be changing morning, noon, dinner time and bed time, these are also natural times to visit the toilet so perhaps you can have her do that while you check her pad or pullups - there's no need to change if she's dry.

Helpful Answer (4)

Reply to cwillie

Report

Really. So there is actually someone out there (who doesn't return to respond, by the way) who doesn't understand how often to change urine soaked diapers? Curiouser and curiouser I am thinking.
Now, giving yakima the benefit of the doubt I bow to your wisdom and good advice, cwillie, and I think that your ideas for changing are stellar!

(0)

Report

See 4 more replies

I am very curious about why someone who "doesn't soil diapers" is WEARING diapers?
Do fill me in, and then I can answer.

Helpful Answer (2)

Reply to AlvaDeer

Report

In my dad's case - he is 96yrs and has Lewy Body Dementia (Moderate) He doesn't normally soil his diaper but wears one daily because he does have occasional accidents - especially while he's in deep sleep or during a hallucination. So the diaper is there as extra protection so the mess stays encapsulated in the diaper and not all over New York City! If you know what I mean! It's happened enough times - maybe 2-3 times per month - so we don't take chances any longer - he feels more secure with the diaper on - so, that's a plus! His are the pull up disposable type for men - Gray - quite nice actually!

(6)

Report

If she's not peeing or crapping in the diaper, why is she wearing a diaper? She should be maybe using disposable pull-ups instead of diapers.

I would switch her over to pull-ups during the day and if she doesn't mess it, have her change into a clean one every day when she gets washed up and dressed for the day.

Helpful Answer (7)

Reply to BurntCaregiver

Report

Ha, I just wrote the same thing! Great minds and all that, wondering why someone who isn't incontinent is in diapers?

(6)

Report

See 3 more replies

How often to change diapers (not soiled)?

20 Answers

Recent Questions

Popular Questions

Related Questions