Ive been taking care of my mother since I turned 18. 2 years ago she fell and broke her leg and my life has been nothing but a nightmare. She still cant walk...she cant really do much for herself eccept feed and change herself. In November I found out I was pregnant and since then there has been so much added stress on me and my husband. Her doctors wont help me...my mom doesn't want home health in the house. My mother is coming between me and my husband and the added stress of being pregnant is taking its toll on me. I dont know what to do anymore. My mother needs around the clock care...but she wont willing go into a nursing home she thinks I can handle everything and mind you my husband and I both work fulltime. I need help I really dont know what to do anymore.
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It's also brought up again in
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which is where I'm addressing it.
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/help-with-disabled-mom-with-multiple-sclerosis-178961.htm
It's also brought up again in
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/handle-a-parent-wants-you-to-give-up-your-life-178894.htm?cpage=0&cm=464042#464042
which is where I'm addressing it.