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I am sorry to read of your situation. I'll share my experiences with you and hope you can glean something that's useful. Without a bit more info it's hard to know where to start. Is your wife in a hospital now? If yes, please contact the social services office and put this question to them. They can connect you with all kinds of services to help you, your wife and your family.
Payment for her care will depend on your insurance. Contact your agent to understand if palliative (basically keeping the patient comfortable) or hospice care are covered. If she's been working and is insured, she may have some coverage or it could include short term disability since she can't return to work. Example: My uncle was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer and with no way to predict how long he'd have. He was declared disabled and received about $1200 per month for 5 months before passing away. Due to COBRA his health insurance was paid by his employer for 6 months after the disability declaration. This also meant his life insurance was still in effect at the time of his passing. So - "disability" might come through her employer or social security - you'll have to talk with each to understand what's possible. Her employer might also make use of the family leave to keep her insured but not pay her wages. A friend is currently retaining her medical insurance this way as she deals with terminal stomach cancer. Though, her participation in life insurance ended when her family leave started.
If you don't have insurance, medicare or medicaide are options, depending on your income. Again, the social services at your local hospital, hospice or your local Area Agency on Aging can help you understand those qualifications. Medicaide is paid through your state, generally the department of health and welfare, and is intended for low income patients. Medicare is intended for folks over 62 or 65, depending on your birth year.
I would also encourage you to contact your local hospice care provider(s). They are usually very kind and respectful in these situations. They can give you advice, recommendations and provide care for your wife. Hospice is also set up to handle various scenarios - care in your home, in a rehab center or a specialized hospice facility.
Hospice services are wonderful but they do not cover caregivers to be there while you work. However many Hospice services have an inpatient facility and since you wife has only a few months she should qualify to be in one. My heart is with you.
Hospice services are a godsend of a service that will come in and help with any advice, comfort, meds and pyshical needs. My heart goes out to you...be strong...!
If you live in a close-knit community pick up that phone and reach out while hospice care and other services come through. Don't forget relatives. Also, look for bereavement support groups in your area. They might connect you with services a lot quicker and give you strength after the eye of the storm has passed you by. Wish you the best.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Payment for her care will depend on your insurance. Contact your agent to understand if palliative (basically keeping the patient comfortable) or hospice care are covered. If she's been working and is insured, she may have some coverage or it could include short term disability since she can't return to work. Example: My uncle was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer and with no way to predict how long he'd have. He was declared disabled and received about $1200 per month for 5 months before passing away. Due to COBRA his health insurance was paid by his employer for 6 months after the disability declaration. This also meant his life insurance was still in effect at the time of his passing. So - "disability" might come through her employer or social security - you'll have to talk with each to understand what's possible. Her employer might also make use of the family leave to keep her insured but not pay her wages. A friend is currently retaining her medical insurance this way as she deals with terminal stomach cancer. Though, her participation in life insurance ended when her family leave started.
If you don't have insurance, medicare or medicaide are options, depending on your income. Again, the social services at your local hospital, hospice or your local Area Agency on Aging can help you understand those qualifications. Medicaide is paid through your state, generally the department of health and welfare, and is intended for low income patients. Medicare is intended for folks over 62 or 65, depending on your birth year.
I would also encourage you to contact your local hospice care provider(s). They are usually very kind and respectful in these situations. They can give you advice, recommendations and provide care for your wife. Hospice is also set up to handle various scenarios - care in your home, in a rehab center or a specialized hospice facility.
Best regards to you and your family.
-- ED