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When my mom fell last summer, she initially had a large bruise up and down her arm where she landed. After four day, like magic, an bruise manifested from some bump on the head, and the blood puddled around eyelids, under eyes, frown lines, cheeks. It looked like she'd been beaten up. (Who, me??) And, lo, there is a help for senior bruises, including those ones that happen from a simple bump against a counter or from scratching. Vitamin K cream. Think it's from Reviva or similar maker. It was very gratifying for Mom to see the dimishment in the bruise from day to day.
Good outcome, and thanks for sharing. The whole bruising thing is so sad, overall, for me. Regardless of cause, I sure wish no elder had to experience any such thing. Just a reminder of health decline.
1 -- Call or visit elderly neighbors and family members. Strong social ties are crucial for fragile or at risk elders. If you notice signs of abuse or neglect, take note of the date, time, and people involved in the situation. For example, you stop by your neighbor's home and see that she has a bruise on her arm. She acts ashamed when asked how it happened. Her daughter comes into the room and you notice that your neighbor shrinks as she approaches. When her daughter leaves the room, your neighbor seems more relaxed. When you get home, write down on your calendar, "Unexplained bruise on right forearm, the size of a quarter. Mary shies away from her daughter when she enters the room." Then you add the date and time of your observation.
2 -- Once you have gathered two or more reports of the same type of injury, it is time to make your report. Call your local Adult Protective Services and give them all the information you have collected. In the meantime, keep observing for any signs of further abuse or neglect. If you see signs that an elderly person has been assaulted, is suffering gross neglect, or is in immediate danger of further harm, call the police immediately.
3 -- If you suspect nursing home abuse or neglect, call the Long Term Care Ombudsman in your state.
4 -- Educate others on how to recognize abuse and neglect. Support local agencies which provide services to fragile and at risk elders, such as the Area Agency on Aging. Volunteer or assist in a fundraiser to raise awareness of domestic violence and elder abuse issues in your community; and
5 -- Call, email or write to local, state and federal officials in support of legislation and funding to prevent abuse and neglect.
AlzCare; Thank you for the advice about vit. K cream. I am always looking for more natural methods to treat minor ailments. Not a fan of drug companies and their "overkill" approach. Lilli
I looked up what I used. Reviva Labs Vitamin K Cream, about $13.50 for 1.5 oz jar online. I spent about $25 for same at the health food store. the little jar handled her entire bruised arm and face. We still have some. This Reviva cream or lotion is great for getting rid of those senior blood bruises. Some say these cannot be diminished, but I did with creams containing these ingredients. Alpha Lipoic Acid, Vitamin C Ester & DMAE Cream. Learned about this from that skin doctor, Perricone?
Thank-you everyone for your responses, and caring ways. Ed thanks so much for the info, will print out your post. Also thanks for the hug caregiverslight. My prayers go out to all of you. Such a hard thing to watch our loved ones struggle and for us to feel helpless at times.
You're welcome, Lrock. We are here to support each other. It is not an easy road. Always remember that you are doing your best. When I was a child and would get sick, my Mom and Dad always told me if they could take away the illness from me and bear it for me instead of my having to endure it, they would. I always remember that sentiment now as my Mom's health has declined. I would do anything to take it away from her and grant her days of comfort and ease. Sure doesn't work that way. All we can do is to be there for our loved ones and let them know how much we care and that they are not alone in their older years and health decline. God bless you, Lrock. You're the best!
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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Here are some steps for reporting elderly abuse:
1 -- Call or visit elderly neighbors and family members. Strong social ties are crucial for fragile or at risk elders. If you notice signs of abuse or neglect, take note of the date, time, and people involved in the situation. For example, you stop by your neighbor's home and see that she has a bruise on her arm. She acts ashamed when asked how it happened. Her daughter comes into the room and you notice that your neighbor shrinks as she approaches. When her daughter leaves the room, your neighbor seems more relaxed. When you get home, write down on your calendar, "Unexplained bruise on right forearm, the size of a quarter. Mary shies away from her daughter when she enters the room." Then you add the date and time of your observation.
2 -- Once you have gathered two or more reports of the same type of injury, it is time to make your report. Call your local Adult Protective Services and give them all the information you have collected. In the meantime, keep observing for any signs of further abuse or neglect. If you see signs that an elderly person has been assaulted, is suffering gross neglect, or is in immediate danger of further harm, call the police immediately.
3 -- If you suspect nursing home abuse or neglect, call the Long Term Care Ombudsman in your state.
4 -- Educate others on how to recognize abuse and neglect. Support local agencies which provide services to fragile and at risk elders, such as the Area Agency on Aging. Volunteer or assist in a fundraiser to raise awareness of domestic violence and elder abuse issues in your community; and
5 -- Call, email or write to local, state and federal officials in support of legislation and funding to prevent abuse and neglect.
Hope that helps.
-- ED
Thank you for the advice about vit. K cream. I am always looking for more natural methods to treat minor ailments. Not a fan of drug companies and their "overkill" approach.
Lilli
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