My mother was living in an independent living facility and doing very well until Covid hit. I was nervous that the virus would get in there so I brought her to my house 2 months ago. She still pays $3000/month for her apartment. I don't know how long this will go on, when will it be safe for her to return? It's stressful having her here and I am dealing with a cancer diagnosis. I'm nervous about bringing in outside help for her.
You should call the activity director to find out how they are currently handling things. Some are beginning to allow limited visits. Some only outside and some inside with time limits. Some are serving meals only in the rooms etc. so basically to make an informed decision call. When your mom goes back they may require her to self isolate for 14 days which they do at my friend's IL.
some questions to ask:
-how they are screening staff
-have they had cases within IL with staff or residents
-how are meals handled
-how are activities handled
-will she have to self isolate If she returns
Have your list made up and make the call to help you decide.
In my area, the numbers are low. Things are opening up. If its like that in your area, then as long as she is careful I see no problem in her returning. Ask the manager of the facility how things are going there.
In a response you state that you mom does not have the cognitive ability to make the decision as to what to do.
How is she in Independent Living facility? Memory Care would be more appropriate.
I would contact the facility and find out how they are screening staff and residents. If they have residents that test positive are they quarantining them for the recommended length of time? And do they currently have any positive cases where your mom resides?
If they are following proper protocol and you feel comfortable (at least as comfortable as possible given the situation) then make a decision based on YOUR needs and YOUR health at this time.
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