My mother is 91 and has been taking metoprolol for about ten years. For the past year she's been hearing a man singing for hours at a time, and she sees people who wear white coats in her bedroom. The music disturbs her and the people frighten her. She refuses to see a psychiatrist (recommended by her PCP last winter) and does not want to discuss the matter with her PCP. The above symptoms are listed as "less common" side effects of metoprolol.
I'd suggest that you try to get her into a geriatrician - a doctor who specializes in older people. Let that doctor know ahead of time by letter what the problem is. Then, the doctor can make changes without embarrassing your mother (at least there's a chance). Check back if you can. We'd like to hear how it goes.
Carol
If she's taking it for HBP, isn't it odd how a medication can trigger what it's supposed to treat or prevent? Carol is right, the dosage might be too high. She can also take something else with milder side effects.
My mother stressed me out so much I was on Ambien. Sometimes I didn't remember if I had taken it or not, so I'd take another just to make sure I got some quality shuteye. I'd hallucinate, even with my eyes open. The doorknob would slide up and down; squatters in my closet roasting marshmallows, the goddess Jemanja would appear on a wall; robe flapping in the ocean breeze. .. Yikes!
Now I don't even take aspirin, and see my psych 2x a year just to be sure.
I am 51 and my Mom is 75. I met Dr. Radhika Mudiyala in Smyrna, GA at a caregivers seminar. She is our primary care specialist and specializes in geriatrics and has been a Godsend for both of us. She had actually left the office the other day, but came back just to see my Mom! She is a very sweet natured, caring individual in addition to her knowledge of the elderly. She was able to pinpoint a boatload of problems my Mom was having that her prior primary care totally missed. It would be awesome if any of you live in the Atlanta / Smyrna area to take your loved ones to see her, but if not, I would like to suggest that you get your loved ones to a geriatric specialist. They can be hard to find, but well worth the work.
Good Luck to you Ellen! Let us know what happens!
Medications are a funny thing! What works for one may react the opposite for another. Try to rule everything out before introducing psych. meds. My mother with Dementia has been on psych meds and thats a "roller coaster ride" to find the right dosage and right med. Sometimes I felt like she was being used as a Guinea Pig.
Make notes about her symptoms. Time of day it occurs more, the frequency, any other behavior concerns, etc... So when you talk to dr. you can be more precise to better help Dr. understand.
Does she have any other behaviors that might indicate dementia?
I can understand that FIL has had enough. I hope that he can be patient and supportive. It is extremely unlikely that MIL is doing this on purpose.
Do stay on top of the medications! My good friend found me a website, that allows me to type in all her meds and then tells me of the side effects and possible interactions. Then I talk with my mother's doctors and pharmacists about them.
Take care,
Carol