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AngelaH, could you explain the situation in a little more detail? I think then you will get more responses.
In general, an ALF is not a prison and people cannot be held there against their will. But a court-appointed guardian can decide where their charge lives. Is there a court-appointed guardian involved here?
Are you sure it is an ALF that the spouse is being "forced" into? Could it be a short-term stay at a mental health facility for evaluation? That is sometimes the start of taking care of issues medically.
I've read your profile. I am so very sorry that you and your husband are in such a disruptive situation. Are you in the US? What state? Or what country?
Giving us a few more details will help people give meaningful responses.
Angie, Jeanne asks good questions. It sounds like there's a history here, and that will help others respond to your question.
However, you DON'T have to accept the doctor's suggestions, or advice, w/o further explanation.
On a more aggressive note, I've been told by an ER staffer who just met my father and made a conclusion in less than 1/2 hour that my father could not go home. This man began making arrangements for AL, w/o discussing it with us first.
And a few ignorant neighbors have drawn the same conclusion, w/o knowing much more than that my father is old. Social workers in rehab have taken the same position.
When meddlers want to give unsolicited advice and ask WHY I haven't "put" him someplace, I tell them we can't afford it and ask if they're willing to dip into their financial resources to help pay for care at an AL facility.
Most of them know nothing about Medicaid, VA support or other options, and just gulp when I challenge them.
I've also done that with doctors who aren't regular treating doctors. They too are ignorant of the financial arrangements and just make some excusatory excuse and flee the room.
So, please provide more background information on this situation so posters can tailor their advice, and most of all, STAND YOUR GROUND.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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In general, an ALF is not a prison and people cannot be held there against their will. But a court-appointed guardian can decide where their charge lives. Is there a court-appointed guardian involved here?
Are you sure it is an ALF that the spouse is being "forced" into? Could it be a short-term stay at a mental health facility for evaluation? That is sometimes the start of taking care of issues medically.
I've read your profile. I am so very sorry that you and your husband are in such a disruptive situation. Are you in the US? What state? Or what country?
Giving us a few more details will help people give meaningful responses.
However, you DON'T have to accept the doctor's suggestions, or advice, w/o further explanation.
On a more aggressive note, I've been told by an ER staffer who just met my father and made a conclusion in less than 1/2 hour that my father could not go home. This man began making arrangements for AL, w/o discussing it with us first.
And a few ignorant neighbors have drawn the same conclusion, w/o knowing much more than that my father is old. Social workers in rehab have taken the same position.
When meddlers want to give unsolicited advice and ask WHY I haven't "put" him someplace, I tell them we can't afford it and ask if they're willing to dip into their financial resources to help pay for care at an AL facility.
Most of them know nothing about Medicaid, VA support or other options, and just gulp when I challenge them.
I've also done that with doctors who aren't regular treating doctors. They too are ignorant of the financial arrangements and just make some excusatory excuse and flee the room.
So, please provide more background information on this situation so posters can tailor their advice, and most of all, STAND YOUR GROUND.