I also have a 9 year son who is autistic. I am tired of giving my parents $2000.00 every month. They would not have a problem if my dad did not have so many credit cards. We give them $1000. per month to help out with expenses. We pay his credit cards to the tune of $1000. We pay his cell phone $50.00 We paid of one of his credit card at the tune of $10,000 and now he has charged it back up to $12000. Now he wants my mom out the house and expects me to somehow achieve this. She only gets $600.00 a month. He gets $1400.00 net from social security and their house is paid for. He is also diagnosed with Narcisstic personality disorder. Did I also mention I have two college age daughters. We just can't continue to do nothing for our own retirement. I don't want to do this to my family. I live in Texas and I just want to say ....No more, and walk away. But I love my mom, she is not the problem...He is demanding, abusive, and a horrible liar. Help???