My sister has POA over my father who is currently hospitalized. My brother has been calling the nurses station from out of state for medical updates until recently when she pulled the POA card and told the nurses no mas. Is it legal for her to do this??
What kind of a "spin" does she want to put on it?
Can your out-of-state brother talk to your dad directly? If dad is "in his right mind" he can override the POA's orders and tell the nursing station to talk to you. If dad is not competent or agrees that he wants all messages to go through his POA daughter, then that pretty much is how it has to be.