I'm getting steamrolled. The more I do, the worse I get treated. I have brother who never helps, yet I get the wrath. She still writes checks, and controls her finances, but uses me as her scapegoat whenever shes upset. Which is all the time. How do I go about getting her evaluated without the backlash at me for doing this? My brother doesn't talk to me, and labels me a complainer if I mention him. He takes advantage of this dysfunctional house. I'm told it only gets worse.
Are these things fair? No. They can be infuriating. But at least we know it is them and not us.