For those of you who have read my past posts here is an update: My B was still yelling and screaming at me and ignoring me so now his number is blocked! I am at the point of having to send him paperwork but have no where to send it. He refuses to get his mail due to the fact that he receives so many bills from credit companies. I have talked to a lawyer and to the bank. The suggestions are to send the mail registered and wait and see what happens. I will ask for a signature if the package is picked up.
Christmas is a difficult time as we are once again in lockdown because of Covid-19. There are so many memories and no family to share them with. Yes I have my husband and my son's family but no one that remembers the "olden days".
To top it off, my Blood Pressure has sky rocketed, partly from stress and chronic pain! I am staying as positive as possible. My husband is terrified that if I go to the hospital that I will not return.
This site has been so very helpful and given me more support that I ever imagined. Thank you so much Merry Christmas
I have also developed stress induced tachycardia and altho I am on meds for it--I have 'attacks' everyday. Also have chronic back pain.
COVID related stress and DH WFH and trying to heal from cancer has made it all harder. My Doc read me the riot act yesterday and said this could permanently damage my heart if I don't calm down.
Yes--do send the paperwork registered mail. When /if B recieves it, he signs for it, so you have that. You cannot make him OPEN it, but you can prove he recieved it.
Family--they are so great until they're not, right? I wish you well, I know you want to put this all to rest.
I just thank you for letting me get this out. I just pray I find myself soon. It’s lonely not knowing who you are or what your purpose is anymore.
thanks for your post, it helped me open up. I also hope you and your husband are doing well in dealing with the “fake family”.
thank you
And relegate your brother to the sh%t pile. He's not worth your health. Sending you a great big hug.