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Isn't the hospital responsible to make sure he DOESNT get a sore bum? Shouldn't they be doing everything they can to prevent one and providing what he needs?
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KUStilley Aug 2021
NYCmama,
Amen! I live in NC and I also believe the hospital is responsible for preventing a sore bum and for treatment if it occurs. My experiences have been quite different. Unfortunately, we have to advocate for our loved ones if they can't or won't do it for themselves. I don't know if it's like that everywhere. Even after bringing it to the attention of anyone who would listen I found that the barrier cream I requested was not being applied and the rawness worsened. I found a doctor who listened to me and ordered medication for the rapidly growing rash. Also, there was never a time I wiped his butt (even after he had just been cleaned by a tech) that he was clean. Sad but true. My husband was sick for twenty years and I learned it all the hard way. Many thanks to you.
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I've used Cottonelle wipes which are 'flushable' and they work well for me. Also there is a product called Spenco Second Skin which is a moist covering for bed sores.
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Grandma1954 Aug 2021
even if the box says "flushable" I wouldn't risk a plumbing bill.
and if you happen to be on a septic system never flush anything like that.
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I prefer dove sensitive skin liquid soap mixed in a basin with warm water, and using white cotton washcloths. You can buy the inexpensive kind and toss them if they are soiled with bm. If not, you can wash them separately on hot with bleach and scent free detergent. Be sure also to dry with a clean towel, that is also washed in hot with bleach after use (wash between uses). Be sure to dry him throughly. I agree with other posters about using desitin as a barrier. I would also request a consult with a wound care nurse. Once she sees him, follow her recommendations.
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My dad had bed sores from several hospitalizations and then he became bedridden. We often used "Assurance" extra large adult bath wipes purchased from Amazon. He was coated with a thick barrier cream at every diaper change.

My mom and aunt use these wipes for their sponge baths and like the product.
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We fought this issue and worried constantly about pressure sores. Finally one amazing nurse said it looked fungal to her. We started using using topical miconazole (for vaginal yeast infections) and voila! It wasn't overnight but the improvement was so marked that we knew we were helping. The doctor prescribed a stronger antifungal and we finally got rid of it. Good luck !!!
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I used A &D ointment on my dad's sore behind. You can get it in the baby section at the drug store. Be vigilant with it. Really, though any product that puts a layer between his skin and urine/underwear/diaper will work.
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They should be using a barrier cream (desitin or a zinc oxide - in the hospital they actually used their pharmacist to make a spray that had both the above in it). There is also a zinc spray called Dr smiths zinc barrier spray that is easy to spray on.
But also be very careful it’s not the start of a pressure sore - is he in bed a lot? if so is he on an air mattress or are the using pillows to change is body positioning every 4 hours? I would ask about all the above.

When mom had her stroke she was in ICU and they had these soft gentle throw away wash cloths - I have used them every since as being in a bed or wheelchair her skin just needs the most gentle products. The brand is MedPride disposable dry washcloths (I order on Amazon) and then I use the aloevesta foam wash with them (which was also used in the ICU) and on Amazon.
I know it’s hard for some to buy these supplies as they become costly but maybe even using only when there is a flare maybe they will help when the skin is irritated or fragile.

I also use viva soft signature cloth paper towel - to dry with - they are much more gentle than the rough facecloths many of these places use.

Be sure to keep an eye on it so he doesn’t develop a pressure sore. Best of luck
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I used Huggies. No alcohol and comes with Aloe. Nice and big.

Try Desitine ointment. Used on my daughters. Cleared them up quickly.
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Make sure that's not a pressure sore rather than merely a sore bum. Have a doctor check it out.
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I use Baby Wipes with No perfumes..

Use Butt Paste twice a day and apply generously to keep his butt from getting sores.

Also, get a soft cushion for butter will help him not get sores from sitting.

If he wears Adult Diapers, don't use them until his butt has healed.

Let him wear 100% Cotton underwear and pants
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Charmin, (bear commercials) unless he is sensitive to the fragrance.
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