I really am not going to do away with him, but I remember reading that when I turn 65, I will be eligible to receive my husband’s full Social Security payment. Is this true? In addition to my own? If this is true, should anything happen, that would mean I can stay in the house, keep my pets, etc. I know, this sounds like a heartless question and I certainly am not chafing at the bit for widowhood, but it would be a comfort to know if this is possible.
So you CAN get your hsubands, SS, but NOT in addition to your own. You will have to choose one.
My husband was collecting at the time I started at 62. Neither one of us waited till full SS which was 66 for us being born in 47 & 49. My husband was getting 1500 I was getting 750 which was already half of his. If he had gotten 2000 they would have brought mine up to 1000 half of his. There is a little more to this but basically when your husband passes, your SS will drop, if it's the lesser amount, and you will get your husbands, if his is the higher. If you pass before him, he keeps the higher SS and the lower drops. You cannot get two SS checks. I think you r smart to look ahead. Then u can plan for the future. Statistics say woman will live longer.
Widows do not receive both social security payments, just the higher of the two.
My dad passed away this past January, so now my mom will get his entire amount, monthly. She won't get hers, plus his - just his. But this is good because, his was about a thousand dollars more a month than hers.
You won't get your husband's SS, but you can claim SS once you hit 65, on his. he'll get his, and you will get yours.
I would definitely go to the SSA website and read up on the benefits. I do know, though, that you only get yours until he dies and then you should be eligible to draw his (only).
You will be able to receive your husband's FULL SS benefit in the amount he collected at the time of his death.
But yes, as others stated you will have to drop one, most likely yours, if your SS is lower than your husband's full payment.
You wrote: [" Thanks, everyone. It doesn’t seem fair that I’d have to tank my SS since it’s MINE, but Hubby’s is more than twice mine. I’m already collecting on his." ]
It does seem unfair given that widows who never worked still get the husbands full payment at his death.
While women who worked lose theirs, if they collect their husband's benefit.
That does seem unfair for women who worked and paid their own earnings into SS.
So many rules have changed. I didn't know about the above because I started collecting before my sisters. I did it online and now I advise everyone to make an appointment with their social security office. You are even allowed to take half of your husbands allotment and allow yours to continue increasing/growing.
Make the appointment and go down and learn all you are eligible for. I wish someone had told me to do that.
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