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I have spoken to my husband numerous times about the way she treats me. He just says over and over that "she's always been like this". Which I accepted for a long time, but the emotional (and physical) pain she is causing me has just become to much to handle. My husband was witness to her nastiness towards me this past Sunday, I lost it and got upset with her and told her I was done with her being so mean. My husband calmly escorted me from her room and told me to calm down, that there was no use in arguing with her because she doesn't think she is being mean and she won't change.
I don't think he would chose her over me or anything like that, but I do think it would be difficult for him. Which is why I let it go this long.
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Well, I guess the only way, really, is just to come right out and tell them just that.
And maybe give them a version of what you've told us here that is suited to them (meaning be frank and open but no need to be unkind...not that you were, but venting, etc.). Keep it non-emotional, non-challenging, and without accusations or petulance.

Just state the facts. Give them a deadline. And commence to getting things on your end ready, such as packing, etc.

Will your husband back you up in any way when it comes down to it? It sounds like you might need to work this out with your husband first so that you have the support you need when you make your announcement.
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