parent documented monthly expense ( eletric, heat, ins, taxes,house maint, caretaker, legal fees ) leaves him with about $600 common sense will tell you that does not cover food and other small medical expenses, ( diapers, wipes, cream, asprins) which i pay a small amount towards a family member is questing where the $600 goes. i only save document receipts again common sense $600 goes quick in N Y im POA
I would be wary that it is a fishing expedition to see how much money your parent has and the root intention is a monetary gain on the siblings part. But I am a cynical person because I did encounter a dishonest person trying to gain financially with my uncle.
As POA I refuse to get into specifics with anyone. Even with my father and other uncle (his brother). If they dont like it they can use the court system. I always state my responsibility it to act in the best interest of Uncle. That is all.
You are not oblidged to give you siblings any financial information. You are his representative and its between u and him only.
As PoA, I maintain appropriate records and am handling his finances responsibly and in his best interest. I’m not going to provide ongoing detailed accountings to anyone outside of a legal requirement to do so, but I appreciate your concern for Dad."