He has been banned from the transit bus because they have a video of her touching my dad on 2 separate occasions and he is suspended from the senior center for inappropriate sexual behavior with her. He doesn't remember any of this. He is so sad. He feels everyone is against him and this woman is trying to isolate him from his family. Dad's dementia is rapidly getting worse because of the turmoil with this woman but we cannot get her to stay away. When she isn't there he says he doesn't know her and doesn't want her around but she is telling everyone they are getting married. My dad's mind is a mess. He is a pillar of the community and in this county. What do I do?
But surely we've progressed past that? Surely we recognise that no matter how enthusiastic a young lad might be about his crush, it is wrong wrong wrong for an adult to exploit it. And surely, with this elderly gentleman, we can switch the genders in our imaginations and see how we'd feel about it if our grannies were being pestered by 64 year old toy boys, and if those in charge had dealt with it as they have.
It's purely a Protection of Vulnerable Adults question. It's not about being blue meanies with one eye on the estate.
From WebMD,
Erectile Dysfunction Common with Age;
The majority of younger men (74%) rated (their) sexual function as good or very good; only 10% of men older than 80 rated sexual function the same. Only 12% of younger men reported big or moderate (sexual) problems. But nearly a quarter to a third of men older than 50 reported this degree of severity in sexual function.
Come on now. Do you really think this 86 yr. old gentleman could "do the wild thing"?
This poor guy is confused (dementia) but is capable of physical pleasure, however he probably is unable to have intercourse. She may be stimulating but it's not going past first base. Read up on erectile dysfunction in the elderly.
If you think you can "get it on" when you're near 90, you're delusional. Dream on.
Someone's playing games.
Dighby, did you curl up with a doobie and a dictionary to pump out that linguistic masterpiece?
Aaahahaha, you go Tejano! (Texan in Spanish)
Yeah, I'm with CW, if Pyediana doesn't care to (or maybe can't) comment, let this one go.
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