My mother has lived with all 3 of us girls since my father passed away over 2 years ago. My older sibling has convinced my mother to have everything put into a living trust with her as sole beneficary. I did protest and hired a lawyer. Now the preciding judge has ordered us to mediation due to as he put it " THE UNDERLYING ROT". It was brought out in the 1st hearing that she had done this and is keeping us from seeing our mom. She has even threatened having us arrested for trespassing. She wrote letters and sent them to the sheriff's office of the county that mom resides in with her. We are at our wits end knowing that mom has done completely the opposite of what her and dad had told us for years of how they wanted things to be. I just feel that my older sibling never had any respect for our loving father nor our mom for having her do this. Older sibling says she deserves it. Mom had said many times over the years that she felt that older sibling had abondened the family. How did she convince mom to do this?