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At home with sheltered housing. The dump she frequented was not a place of safety. It was a disgrace. I do know what sheltered housing is she lived there for 13.5 years. I will let it go that kept going to a home when there was no need. It is obvious to me she kept frequenting a home. as she was giving up.

She had no need to go there and the authorities had never heard what my mum had done.

Your last post hummingbird infered I did not know about my mum's living arrangements. I found it extremely offensive.
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I can not understand why for a person you have never met would want to defend their actions. It caused the doctors, consultants and me and sheltered housing no end of problems.

the home was corrupted for taking her and all they thought about was money.
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You were not there when she took ill.
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Lizzie is there a reason why you keep doing mulitple postings? Anyhow, you should start a new question because the original poster's question is being ignored imo.
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In fact it put more on me than one could imagine. also 3 people at her funeral I will never speak to again. turned up for pickings.
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do not worry as after this post I am coming off this site. I will say one thing my mum lived in sheltered housing which is independent living not assisted living. and I thought this site would be helpful in fact it is had made me feel worse. Good-bye and hope all the best.
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if she is in her right mind , you should have a third party talk to her once a week . there might be a mental problem that has never been addressed.
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Your mom is not their first mean patient nor will she be the last. They need to handle it. Life would be better for her and others if she were nice , but she is not and has not been( according to your post) her entire life.

Do not be embarrassed. Be extra nice to the caregivers, know their names and their children's names....try to get some nice karma for your mom. Hold them to the expectation that they will deal with her professionally. Be very nice to the administration, Ignore the "thoughts" of kicking her out.....do not encourage it....go from there. Mom won't be happy anywhere, so that cannot be your goal. Your goal is a safe and professional environment for her.
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