Is it harder to get medical treatment for people over 75 years old?

My Mom is 93 and I have not had trouble finding medical care for her. The problem has been finding professionals that are capable of dealing with an elderly person, can recognize issues specific to aging, and are able to work with me on appropriate treatments.

Mom was advised to get a heart valve replacement. I kept asking if it was a good idea for someone her age, 91. The surgeon told me sure, they could do it. I wanted to know if they SHOULD, not if they COULD. I believe the procedure and medications have advanced her dementia, so now we have a 93 year old with no memory but a good heart.

The squeaky wheel gets the grease when it comes to medical care.

Adviocate strongly, loudly and persistently with doctors and insurers to get the best results.

Like nearly everything else concerning folks in their 80's and 90's, this is a complicated question with various answers that depend on circumstances. I am almost 70 and my mother is 96. Needless to say, many of my aunts, uncles, friends, and all my grandparents have died from one thing or another. Some of the conditions that ended in death would have been treated/cured in a younger patient. Some of these elderly relatives/friends tried treatment and died anyway, others refused treatment. Of course, there were times when an elderly relative/friend was treated and lived another 5 or 10 or 20 years.

The questions that we have been asked when one of our loved ones has been considered for one of these expensive diagnostics have implied an age bias of sorts, but in an appropriate way. They were variations of these 2 questions: Will the patient want to pursue treatment if the outcome indicates a treatable condition? and Will the patient survive the treatment if it is indicated? I think these are valid questions. It would be unfair to the elderly not to ask them.

Perhaps you misunderstood. It is not that Medicare quits paying for some kinds of tests or procedures, it is a matter of whether they are really indicated for the very old. It depends entirely upon whether the patient could endure the treatment, if indicated. Strong, robust persons in their 80's and 90's do sometimes get these tests and survive the treatments for the conditions revealed. More often there are enough complicating conditions that treatment would really be torture, without promise of either extending or improving life.

In my mother's case, she has opted to not accept surgical options for current and future medical issues. She is somewhat frail and experiences a fair amount of pain as part of her "normal" existence as it is. She would rather take comfort care than extend her life. In various ways we, her daughters, support her decision. We have differing attitudes, but support Mom's right to choose her treatment options. Her doctors are pretty good about explaining what the results of tests might mean, medically, and what options would be presented. If she is not interested in any of the treatment options then the doctor(s) normally suggest she simply not take the test and just see what happens. If she were to say that she would want treatment, they would recommend the tests. She has been doing this for more than 10 years now. She has prescriptions for as much pain medication as she wants, though she doesn't take much. This has been a good option for her, though she has confided in me that it is taking a bit too long to die.

For me, I no longer take mammograms, though I do get a colonoscopy every 5 years. Reason? I would not have a mastectomy, but the colonoscopy does remove polyps that might become cancerous. I am open to office procedures, but probably not major surgery. I had 2 knee replacements a few years ago and I love the new mobility that I have. When they wear out in 15 or 20 years, though, I doubt that I will do it again. I will retire to an electric scooter and a senior residence. That means that, since I have no intention of redoing the surgery, there will be no CT scans when the joints start failing. Why go to that expense when it will not change the outcome? It will be somewhat related to age, but more a matter of a wise use of limiting expensive testing to those who are ready to undertake treatment the tests indicate.

I believe that these realities are easier to accept for those of us who are getting up there in years than they are for our children, whose lives are still wide open with possibilities. My sons, not quite 50, do not want to see me leave them, but I understand that the time will come. I was in their position 20 years ago. I understand.

I had breast cancer diagnosed at age 71. I was treated with lumpectomy, chemo, and radiation. At the end of all treatments, I discussed possibility of recurrence. Tests like MRI were discussed. My doctor told me they would not do tests like that as it would not save my life/change the outcome. I did mammograms for a few years, then reached the point where I decided I would not put myself through any heroics were I to develop cancer again. I’m 80 now.

Have you considered a Pain Management Specialist? I don't know if you will need a referral or not, if you do, get one.

My hubby is 88 almost 89 with Alzheimer's, we recently decided not to do more testing on his hearing. What they would be looking for is a tumor in his brain. If he has one, we aren't going to do anything about it anyway, so why do the test? I don't do mammograms, or CAT scans on a mass in my chest which is benign. I have had it so long if it was malignant I would be dead. I also am not going to do any more PAP smears.

I used to be 5'9" today I am 5'3". I am in constant pain. I am seeing a Pain Management doctor. We are starting off with the least invasive procedures, which is Physical Therapy. I suggested it, it isn't working, but I wanted to try the lest invasive part first.

Sometimes you have to be a little bit of an a**hole to the medical providers in order to advocate for your parents. Doctors aren't god and while many of them don't like being questioned or for you to get a second opinion, too bad. If this doctor won't do it, ask her oncologist or take her to an orthopedist. Get her involved with palliative care and request one from them. Pain affects quality of life and they need to find out what is causing it. It shouldn't matter how old she is, no one should suffer if it can be fixed or treated.

Imho, your next question directed to your mother's primary care physician should be something akin to - what are you planning to do for my mother's pain? I would not walk away without some kind of definitive plan. Also, I will not assume that your parents have a Medicare Supplemental Plan. However, as there are many plan "letters," this may be an option for them, if affordable. About to turn 74 myself, I pay no out-of-pocket costs, other than the monthly premium. Prayers sent.

I am guessing it is the system. IS her provider affilliated with one particular hospital system? Find a provider in another and get a 2nd opinion. Better yet, connect with you local Alzheimer's assn. or connect via a support group meeting and ask others who have dealt with similar issues who they would reccommend. Sometimes there are elderhealth or geriatric or dementia/alzheimer's specializing practices that know how to work the system to the patient's advantage. And then again sometimes it is all about the $$$$. You are not alone in being frustrated with the medical world. I feel very bullied by it. They say they are non profit but clearly they want all the $$$ they can get.

I think so. I think our medical system needs to be re vamped for older people. With Medicare my mom can only be in the hospital 3 days. They send her back to nursing home and she is back in hospital 2 days later dehydrated ... UTI.... NH can’t make her eat or drink but she will at Hospital. Our system is putting no value in older people who have worked for 40 to 60 years. Paid in and are not getting the care they deserve..
this has got to change! Why shouldn’t an 80 yr old have a scan? Who is to say one life is more valuable than another. Shame on US...

So what did your mother's PCP have to suggest when it comes to investigating her pain and planning her care?

Ruling out one possibility ought to be the start of a conversation. Not the end of it!

Nope .. find another pcp!

Medicare pays regardless of age for things they cover, however many doctors quit ordering tests just based on age. General practitioners generally reach a point, and don't hesitate to say, why put her through it at her age? (Which is crazy to me). A one year survivor of breast cancer should continue to get whatever tests an oncologist wants done until the patient passes the survival rate standard for that particular cancer. (Different kinds of breast cancer).

Don't ask family dr about these things, ask the specialist. It may also be time to find a geriatric doctor.

If a person is elderly and has dementia, their brain is already dying. If that person is also diagnosed with cancer or some other catastrophic disease, the treatments can be stressful and painful.

The tests can also be stressful for someone with dementia. Some tests require anesthesia, which can exacerbate the dementia.
Why take a test to find out that your loved one has a disease that requires painful and stressful treatments or surgeries? Why would you put your loved one through all of that?

And, why prolong the inevitable?

Sadly, the short answer is yes. It's not just age but co-morbidities. If it were purely based on risk, I would understand, but apparently, an accurate diagnosis isn't so important to the accountants. You're right, how can one provide the best care, even just palliative care, if one doesn't know the diagnosis. My dad was denied a PET scan that an equally ill person who was 10 years younger would have been allowed. I found it incredibly frustrating because I didn't know how to make difficult value judgement concerning his condition when the condition had not been identified. The lesion on his brain could be cancer or nothing. The PET scan was the only safe way to determine. His care definitely suffered as a result. Not to get political, but as long as we move to more socialized medicine, this will become more common, not less.

I'm going to "speak" from the other side of the fence. I am 81 years old. I recently had reverse shoulder replacement surgery, and have completed recovery, 9 weeks of immobilization of my arm, sleeping on a recliner the entire time, not able to fully shower and dress myself, not able to fully prepare my meals, just re-heat. I had a caregiver come every day to help me take my immobilizer off, watch while I did my exercises, and help administer my eye drops, help with showering and dressing. I could have had them do housework, cook meals, laundry (they did occasionally), but my place is small and not much housework to do. There was a minimum # hours I had to have, so a lot of money used for them to sit around. Again, I could have had them do housework, but I also have two ladies come in to clean every two weeks. I think I should not have had this surgery, I should have just lived with this pain in my upper arm and shoulder from a fall a year ago, rather than go through the pain and immobilization I have had these last 9 weeks. I spent several thousand dollars for this care. The sling is off, but there is slight pain. It will take me a year to get well, and I still may not be able to use that arm to the fullest. I wish I had given this more thought and talked with more people before agreeing to the surgery at my age, but the year long pain I endured from a fall, of not being able to raise my arm to comb hair or put on clothes seemed too much, so I agreed to the surgery. It was not fully explained to me the recuperation, and now I will also need physical therapy. Luckily I can still drive to that. Having said all this, I think if I had the illnesses posters have indicated in this thread, I would not have the surgery their doctors are recommending. Remember, think it through, think of the recuperation, think what the patient has to endure, will the patient need complete care, toileting, showering, feeding, will that person be any better with the surgery or without. I think I should have endured the pain of holding a hair dryer rather than endure the recuperation from this shoulder surgery and ongoing pain for the rest of my life.

It is not about age. I think you PCP may be concerned about whether or not she could comply with the instructions for the procedure or if she has a contraindication. Consider getting a second opinion. It may be time to shop for a PCP that specializes in geriatrics.

You should have asked the Dr why it was frowned upon.

My thoughts is if your in the Hospital there are way too many Tests and Procedures done that isn't necessary.
Usually older people do not get operated on unless it was an emergency because their is more of a chance that they would die from the operation than what is wrong with them.

Also tests, MRI's, Cat Scans, PET Scans, ect are too hard, uncomfortable and stressful for the Senior and is useless because nothing would be done from what the Tests may show anyway.

You already know your mom has Parkinson's and Dementia and she is in pain.

Even tho Insurance Companies including Medicare will pay for test the Dr's think are necessary. You need to know what would be the use of taking them.

If your mom shows to have Bone Cancer, it's not like they're going to operate and at her age I'm sure she wouldn't want to spend her last days being horribly sick from Chemo and Radiation when the outcome would be the same, and that's death.

Ask the Dr if it's time your mom should be on Hospice Care or something else.

the main thing is to try to make and keep your mom comfortable.

Even Arthritis, which everyone gets is painful.

Just talk with her Dr and have her meds checked and adjust the pain Meds.

Hopefully she can spend her last time of life in her own home and not in a Senior Home where no matter how lovely it may seem when viewing, if you put her there, it will make her feel unloved, lonely, depressed, scared and she will lose the will to live and eventually die alone.
Praters for all

At a certain age, it's the higher risks of what might happen during the procedure or a complication. Then there's what was already performed & done, and what the next step of that order of procedures.

With any test or treatment there is a "Benefit VS Burden"
For example. Your mom at 75 with Parkinson's and Dementia.
1. It would probably require having to put her under anesthesia or at least a very heavy sedation for any test. the resulting sedation can make dementia worse for a while and her cognition may not return to pre test condition. AND if the test came back indicating any type of cancer would it be worth it to put her through treatment? And if you did put her through it would she understand why and would she again have to be sedated to get chemo or radiation? (I am not sure I would want to go through that and I don't have Parkinson's or dementia)

If you wanted to push this you could contact the insurance and ask if it would be covered and get approval. But I do not think it would be wise to put someone with dementia through tests like that. Would you want them to have a colonoscopy? That was a test that my Husbands doctor asked me about and I looked at her like she was crazy. My Husband was 68 at the time and I said there was no way I was going to put a person with dementia (and me) through the prep and the sedation for a test like that. If it came back indicating cancer, I would opt to not put him through surgery.

Depends on the insurance they may need prior approval--insurance determines healthcare, not the doctors

I definitely think they weigh the need over the impact more after a certain age. And also when patients have certain types of diagnoses. Sometimes even when a treatment or test is warranted they have to weigh the outcome vs the impact. Sometimes the treatment is worse than the disease. And sometimes the more invasive tests can cause more problems. It is important for them to weigh whether a patient has a good chance of surviving the testing, and whether the testing is going to change the outlook for the patient. That's hard when the 'patient' is someone you love.
My dad had a primary doctor for a very short while who was very young and did have an ageist mentality. Way before my dad got really sick, his then primary decided that dad was 'too old' to worry about and that his time was better served with younger patients. Now let me say that my dad passed away at the age of 72 and it was several years before this that his then primary decided that since dad was retired he should just 'enjoy his last days and not take up the reserves of the doctors'. (he didn't say those words but something to the effect of a couple of dad's underlying medical issues weren't really worth addressing because he was as 'old' as he was). That particular doctor was reported to the practice and is no longer there but is probably still practicing.

On the other hand, sometimes doctors have to put their foot down with some patients for their own good. (not saying that is OPs case). My FIL will absolutely jump at any medical treatment, especially a surgical option. He seems to believe that there is some magic treatment for the damage that years of uncontrolled diabetes, living at over 300 pounds, no physical activity, and a myriad of other diagnoses that can reverse all signs of aging and disease. Compounded by his narcissism, because he can't possibly have anything to do with his current nearly immobile status, he is always looking for some way out of it. And his doctors have stopped ordering unnecessary tests or treatments, much to his chagrin. His latest is that he needs knee replacement. He is 86 years old, 300 pounds, generally unhealthy, non-compliant with rehab, his philosophy is 'no pain, no pain'. But he is so angry that his doctor(s) won't even entertain the idea. They have told us he won't likely survive the anesthesia or the surgery, and even if he did, he would likely never walk again because the recovery would take a lot of work on his part that we already know he is not willing to undertake. His last stent in rehab for a minor fall found him discharged from the rehab at skilled nursing home level and deemed 'not rehab-able'. This was also borne out in the fact that his home PT, OT, bath aide and nurse time were extended due to COVID and he actually LOST some mobility due to his non-compliance.

So I do think that some doctors may limit what they are willing to do for those over 75 (my 94 year old grandmother had hip replacement several years ago, so it really depends on a number of factors), but I also believe they have to choose their patients wisely for a number of tests and treatments because they have to have a good chance at the expected outcome being positive to even warrant it in the first place. Sometimes a treatment can make things worse than they were before (we've been there with FIL as well).

I do think there should be something to help them with pain, that one should be non-negotiable where it is within the doctor's power to address it. That level of pain can impact so many other areas of your life!

It is an utterly INAPPROPRIATE response from a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL to say a test is "frowned upon to do that on someone her age. " Had a doctor said that please to me or a LO it would have been our last visit.

I want to thank each one of you for your advice, personal stories, and good lucks. You are all truly a Blessing. You all help helped me understand a lot better what is most and I thank you all for that! God Bless you all Caretakers! Our jobs are not easy, but our parents took care of us as infants into adulthood. They have gone from adulthood slowly back to teens then babies. It is tough to watch, care for and emotionally draining. I see my therapist once a week and I cry most of that hour. They time I let my guard down. Thank you all again!

I would contact her oncologist about her severe pain. If you know her pain is bad, please dont wait. With either of the diagnoses, it can metastasize to brain, spine, lungs to name a few. Plus there is no reason she has to suffer. I had a similar situation with my dear sweet MIL. By the time the dr did scans and she was diagnosed with bladder cancer, but it quickly metastasized to her brain and other organs. After almost 1 year, she was admitted to hospice and passed away in 6 days. I also lost my husband to pancreatic cancer that had metastasized to his lungs and other organs. He lived only 3 months from time of diagnosis. So my experiences are what makes me tell you to contact her oncologist immediately.....prayers and blessings coming you way!! Liz

Sadly I ran into this with my mom’s previous doctor. As her Alzheimer’s worsened the care for her worsened too. After many frustrating times I found a geriatric doctor. The difference is just amazing. I hope you can find one for your parents.

Are you serious? I have heard that some places are tightening up about helping the elderly. I consider that abuse and neglect.

Medicare still pays. There should not be a problem.

Take your mother to another doctor,

I had a PetScan last Monday, for post cancer dx. They aren't invasive at ALL, in fact, they're actually very boring. I fell asleep, waiting for the contrast to move through my body.

BUT--they are very expensive and a dr wouldn't order one up just b/c a patient has a random pain. During my cancer TX I had so many tests--the PetScan just being one of about 8.

Also, I walked down the hall after the PS and had a mammogram. Both scans show different tissue, I thought the PS would cover all the bases, but it didn't.

My Mom is 84 and has had a number of follow up Petscans in th ten years since her breast cancer was first diagnosed and treated. Her oncologist will likely schedule another one in January.

Her insurance is Medicare Kaiser HMO. She does not have Parkinson's or dementia.

Is your Mom able to follow the directions for the test? There is a lot of not moving so that normal activity doesn't light up on the test.

Contact her oncologist concerning the pain. Tell him/her she is complaining about pain. Your not really considered cured until 5 years. Your Moms breast cancer could have spread. It only takes one little cell.

Ilov, you are clearly worried about your mom's pain. Did you talk to the doctor about the pain, rather than asking for a diagnostic test that is not indicated for her symptoms?

If the pain and the lack of mobility are what have you worried, ask about that.

Don't leap to a cancer diagnosis (and there are lots of tests to do for THAT before you get to a PET scan) without ruling out the more mundane causes.