Long story short...my mother liquidated all her assets and purchased a home for my brother and his wife in 2021 where she was supposed to live out her days. SIL became abusive within 3 months and I allowed my mother to move in with me in March 2022. It was a huge mistake - it was pure hell. She has many health issues including demensia, BPD, NPD, bipolar, etc...She only has about 1300 a month coming in and with your help, my husband and I got her out and into an AL for 1300 a month in July 2023. Well, she's been evicted because of her behavior she has 30 days which can be escalted to 5 if she continues. She will not be coming back here. What are my responsibilities and obligations. Do I call APS? All advise is very welcomed. Thank you.
Narcissistic personality disorders and borderline personality disorder aren't seen as incompetence but to people like me that's the killer. Bullying plus dementia are combinations that take the caregivers down.
Thank goodness you Got out of it regardless of how you did it.
That is what my own broken brain mom did with my mentally ill brother. Before when my Dad was living she had help in several areas helping with his care and he was instutionalized most of the years he was MI. When Dad passed away 18 yrs ago...guess who became her crutch. Yep, me.
I would have done anything for my brother regardless and love and miss him with all my heart.
She would often scream at me and say I was just like him..sick. never ever saw a nurturing hug coming from her even when my brother passed away end of June.
She has since stolen his thunder trying to get sympathy out of anybody she can.
Sorry, I vented here. I'm in a bad place this morning...