My grandpa is 94 years old and he has a super high sexual drive.This is very problematic because 1) my grandma died 19 years ago 2) My grandpa refuses to marry another woman but keep harassing (both orally and physically) caregivers we hired. Sex is almost the only thing he can think of everyday besides other basic needs. My dad is managing his money and gives him a small portion for daily expenses but he spends all the money right away on women.
He has most of the bad behaviors one might see in the elderly such as bad hygiene, abuse, etc., but his brain is clear most of time since he can read newspapers, watch TV, communicate with people normally.
His harassment to the in-house caregivers has driven away at least 20 of them and it becomes really hard to find substitutes. It's impossible to let him live alone because of his old age and serious heart conditions as well as stroke risks.
Me and my parents are desperate, any one has any idea of how to cope with it?
My dad is the one who's living with my grandpa but he is still working and goes out of town all the time. My mom can't stand living with my grandpa alone. She said he's driving her crazy. My grandpa refuses to move to a nursing home and we certainly can't force him.
This is why we need some one to take care of his daily needs and stay with him at night in case he has emergency. About the male caregiver, we didn't give up but there's simply no one who wants the job but charge reasonably (We're not millionaires)
In the meantime, explain to dad that if THIS caregiver quits, he's getting a guy named Leroy who weighs 300 pounds.