A little background, I'm a 27yo male and have been a full time live in caregiver for my grandmother with Lewy Body Dementia for the last 6 years. The last 2 years have been a significant decline in memory, speech, motor skills, and constant mood swings. For the first year I had the help of my aunt, my grandmother's daughter, but she has since moved out and comes to help on the weekends. My grandmother has 4 children and 7 grandchildren ( I being one of them ) and not a single one reaches out and asks how I'm doing or how she's doing. I have zero friends and no escape. I was working up until the beginning of 2020 so I at least got out of the house for a couple hours a day. I don't know if anyone will see this just wanted to type it out.
God bless!
You are a young man who needs to be working and planning your future. The caregiving/decision making should fall on grandma's four children.
I am sure your grandma is very thankful that you have paused your life to help her, but she would not want to keep your life on hold. I promise you she wouldn't want that.
Call a meeting with grandma's four children. One of which is your parent and should be doing something! Tell them you need to go back to work and will be moving out as soon as you find a job and that they need to come up with a plan for their mother.