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fedup - I am so glad your dad is now in assisted living where staff can keep an eye on him and on your mother when she moves in there. But, I do wonder, if she is in late stage dementia if assisted living is suitable for her. I am glad they have memory care as well. It would be better for you if she is in a different part of the facility so you could visit. It seems that any visit with dad present will be abusive to you. Apart from your dad's crazy behaviour, don't you feel better that they have moved? I am sorry things are so difficult for you.
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Fedup45 Jan 2023
Im hoping the facility is aware. My dad's friend is his tool to get things done. He does everything directed by my dad including withholding info. He was there when my dad signed up, I'm hoping he shared some information. It's a 2 bedroom "suite" with a sitting area and breakfast nook from what I heard. The staff will know once they see her she needs help with every aspect. She doesn't even want (she can't) get out of bed without assistance. 🤞
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Great news about your parents going to an assisted living facility!

It would have been too difficult for you to care for your five year old and your mom who needs so much care.

Plus, your dad doesn’t get to order his grown daughter around. He thought that he could make demands and have you follow his instructions. Glad that you weren’t agreeable to allowing him to have things his way. Good for you!
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Fedup45,
Didn't you say you bought their home because your father played you? If so, why is he selling his condo?!! Doesn't that belong to you? If so, you might consider putting a lien on it or speaking with an attorney about it! Just trying to help you! I hope that things are going well for you! 🙏
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Fedup45 Jan 2023
No his condo doesn't belong to me. When I bought their house, my childhood home, he bought a condo and moved. Two separate dwellings ☺️
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