I took Effexor for 4.5 years but discontinued it due to negative side effects. I've been doing research online and hear nothing but bad reviews for every single SSRI that exists it seems.
I have a Dr.'s appt. scheduled for next week and would like to have some possible positive feedback on something before I go so I at least could be armed with information before he just throws any pill at me.
Has anyone out there had a good experience with one. One that causes minimal weight gain, no suicidal thoughts, doesn't cause insomnia, etc. etc.?
I'm not going to start till after Christmas though cause I know the side effects might be bothersome for the first week or two.
Thx everyone for the advice and your experiences. I'll let you know how it goes.
I gather from your post you don't have much confidence in your doctor. Perhaps trying a different one would help. I don't think any dr is just going to throw a pill at you, For any patient, finding the right anti-d is a trial and error process. Every anti-d, indeed every medication, has negative side effects. That's life.
I am delighted with the anti-d I am on which deals with fibromyalgia pain and also has a very slight anti-d effect. At this low dose I don't have problems with side effects.
Wishing you the best results for your current search.
I have much sympathy for you and your ongoing depression and anxiety. Prayers for a good solution. ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
I am a living miracle. I am an empath intuitive and was on 325 mgs of Effexor for more than 10 years. Oh... the weight gain! Fast forward to June 2019. Life was going really wonky... work, looking after my mom, my living situation. I found a wonderful new doctor! What a god send! I had read long ago on another forum that a woman successfully got off the Effexor, bead by bead and then transitioned to Prozac. So, I talked to my doctor and he guided me. Over a period of time, I was released from the clutches of Effexor and am now living beautifully with only 40 mgs of prozac a day. I dropped 25 pounds! I am an intuitive who meditates and lives a very conscious lifestyle. Another helpful component during all this, is that I also took cannabis. It is legal here in Canada. I floated effortlessly through all the storms at that time and found such deep insight during my meditations. What a huge miracle! Now I am helping others do the same. I send you love and light. Bless you!
Interesting you should mention the Prozac cause I have been debating whether or not to go on that.
Whereabouts in Canada are you?
I don't have health insurance and although we do have government healthcare here I don't think it covers psychiatric care. So while I agree it would be better to be prescribed something by a psychiatrist it may not be a viable option.
I'm still undecided about the antidepressant but you've all given me food for thought.
By the way, I did try the ashwagandha and it was sort of helping but then I noticed it was causing blurry vision so I stopped it and the blurriness stopped so it was definitely that.
Anyways, I've got to think about this more and make a decision one way or the other whether I try another pill or keep toughing it out on my own. I've been praying about it. God will give me the answer.😊
Unfortunately, they are not fast acting so trial and error can take months and be very frustrating. Don’t give up, though. Once you find one that works, it can be a life changer.
Make sure you are working with a psychiatrist or a neurologist who knows pharmacology. Don’t be like my sister who got her prescription from her OB/GYN!
Good luck!
My mom was on a low-dose, older generation antidepressant in the last years of her life. She had struggled with depression for much of her adult life, but I think she was too ashamed to let her doctor know. Once she was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, I had a discussion with her medical doctor and we determined it would benefit her to be on a low-dose, daily medication. I don’t recall the name of the medication since that was more than 8 years ago.
After my mom passed away, my dad was feeling overwhelmed and depressed. He had lost everything—his wife, his home, and his independence. He had been diagnosed with Prostate cancer that had spread to his kidney and bones. Because he could no longer drive, his doctor encouraged him to move into Assisted Living and then shortly thereafter, he ended up in full-fledged nursing care. The antidepressant was used probably less than a year, but it did help him when he was at his lowest time. Dad remained sweet and kind to all of his nurses and the staff of the nursing home, and when he passed, they genuinely missed him.
Antidepressants aren’t for everyone, and may be over prescribed; however, they are for some folks and sometimes for short duration and other times for a longer duration. You and your doctor may have to work on finding the right medication at the right dosage. Once you start feeling better, I always encourage people to reach out to others and help them with their needs. Getting out of ourselves is important and gives us something better to live for.
I refused to go onto anything prescribed without at least trying something natural and was advised to use Ashwagandha and I have been using it for over a year and almost never feel any depression and very little stress. Gaia was the brand recommended to me, but there are a lot of brands of Ashwagandha available. I was being awakened hourly by my DH to assist him in voiding, and the Ashwagandha allowed me to return to sleep and to awaken feeling rested.
Prescription drugs might be cheaper, but I worry about the side-effects and I suffer none with the Ashwagandha and the only side-effect with Cashews is I have trouble stopping at only 6. 😀😂
Lexapro also brought calmness. As others have noted - too much calm. Lackadaisical spells at work. Paying bills late for no reason. Housekeeping took a nosedive. Etc.
Lexapro immediately killed my libido. Zero desire. Zero orgasms.
My Lexapro weight gain was steady and unacceptable. With no change in lifestyle or eating habits, I gained 35-40 lbs. (I’m short. On my frame, this was dramatic.) No amount of diet modification or exercise made a dent.
So yeah, Lexapro mitigated my depression. A long time coming. 20+ years of “toughing out” my bleak, low-function spells. Then came a cluster of all-at-once life changes that made “toughing it out” ineffective and impossible. So I finally sought help.
Over time, my treatment became my problem.
Two years into the Lexapro, my asexual fat slob persona was a price I was no longer willing to pay.
After an in-depth consultation with my doctor, I switched from Lexapro to Wellbutrin. The change was amazing.
Altho - discontinuing Lexapro triggered the “brain zaps.” Yes, they are real. If I hadn’t educated myself about Lexapro withdrawal, the “zaps” would have scared the sh*t out of me. Instead, it was just a weirdness that I learned to live with for a month or so.
Initially, Wellbutrin made me a bit amped-up and agitated. It also increased my focus at work - which was welcome and immediately rewarding.
After a couple of weeks, I realized that Wellbutrin had increased my sensitivity to caffeine. My lifelong normal of 4 or 5 cups of coffee per day was now too much for my system. I tapered to 1 cup per day (1st thing in the a.m.) and the agitation subsided.
My extra weight did not magically come off. BUT with Wellbutrin, my body was able to respond appropriately to weight-loss efforts. Over time, I worked down to my original weight.
Wellbutrin made me so..... normal! Normal mood. Normal motivation. Normal metabolism. Normal libido. 😃
I had typical (manageable) ups and downs. Low points, for sure. That’s life. Wellbutrin kept me from sliding into the pit of despair too deeply. Or for too long.
I went off Wellbutrin for a few years. Because I felt so good, bla bla bla. I was able to self-manage my emotions — until caregiving kicked my azz.
Back on the Wellbutrin for 5+ years now. I have no intention of discontinuing.
Well, that’s my story!
DL
Then, just this year, I started having bouts of major sadness. Doc added a small dose of generic Welbutrin. The combination works wonderfully.
a friend of mine takes Cymbalta and she said it really helped with her dark thoughts. My dad is on it now and I can tell a difference from when he was on Celexa and before that he was on Zoloft.