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I got Mark's death certificate yesterday and the grief hit me like a ton of bricks. It has his three causes listed and I just bawled like a baby. I guess I said it was my fault. I know it's not my fault, but I feel so bad he had to suffer through pain at a younger age. It's so weird how just recently things hit me making me cry like shredding old bills and even TV shows we watched together. Grief is weird and so random at times

Hi doggiemom, we never know how we are going to handle it until we are there. No one does. 😢
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Moms been gone 7 yrs. She had Dementia for 6 yrs. I did not more at her passing but I do get teary when I talk about her or see a picture. So, yes, it can blindside you.
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This is normal. We grieve when we can bear it. Sometimes it is delayed because we aren't ready to look it in the eyes. You are doing well. Expect these "blindsides", girl. They are normal. All of a sudden out of nowhere they will hit and send you reeling. That is normal.
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Go Easy on Yourself . Grief comes in waves and I am Not sure it ever Leaves You . Some People are easier to Let go of than others .
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