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This probably is not due to covid. It is a common occurrence and behavior in people with dementia.

Is this actually assisted living? Or memory care? Sounds like he is in need of a higher level of care where there is a smaller population and more oversight. Have you tried speaking with the doctor about this behavior? There are med that may help with that.
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If he is quite determined and agitated, you can expect confrontation. He sounds like he has deteriorated in his dementia to the point where he needs memory care rather than assisted living. He may no longer belong in AL. This is common behavior and nothing he can control. He may wake up to go to the bathroom and not know where he is which has to be frightening. It could be impacted by isolation but more likely he has moved into another phase. You could consider having facility arrange a geriatric psychiatry evaluation to see if anxiety meds could help. I know I was initially horrified when they suggested an eval for my FIL but the meds they gave him helped tremendously.

what is the facility telling you? He really cannot continue this behavior. If the facility has a memory care wing, that may be a better idea.
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Mindpearl Jul 2020
Thanks for your reply, and you're right: AL is no longer the place for him in his phase of dementia. The problem is, all long-term care homes here (Toronto, Canada) are not accepting new residents due to the pandemic. He's been on the waiting list for half a year, but with hospitals ushering seniors out to free up beds for coronavirus, there is no movement in the waitlist at all :(

The facility is asking me to hire a private caregiver for the nightshift (11pm-7am), however I already have a private caregiver going during daytime, 5 days a week.

He is on a light dosage of anxiety meds, and I'm planning to speak with his Geriatrician about this. A behavioural supports therapist has been consulted, however her suggestions were nothing new. I will try some other creative ways (perhaps distract him with another activity at night), but will resort to meds if all else fails. I need to work and cannot be there every night and sustain my life at once.
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