My husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. His driving days are over. His driver’s license expires in a few months and we won’t be renewing it. I realize there is no harm in getting a state ID card, but is there a need for him to have a current form of ID? In getting legal paperwork in order, he has had to show his ID several times lately. He is still living at home.
https://www.dhs.gov/real-id
https://www.dhs.gov/real-id/real-id-faqs
Even if you don't travel, you will need it to enter a Federal Building... think Social Security, etc.
I took her into the DMV, expecting a wait, but when I got there I found out our state has gone to an appointment system and walk-in service is almost impossible. When I told the clerk it was for my 96 yo mom, however, she took us right through. Great age occasionally has its privileges.
Bring him in when the license is about to expire and just get an ID.
And this might also be needed if you ever have to travel with him.
Most DMV where you get the ID will have reduced fees for Seniors as well
You need a legal ID to get medical care.
You will need a legal ID if he is ever admitted to a medical or residential facility.
You may need a legal ID if you stay in a hotel or motel.
He can't board a flight without a current legal ID.
When you go to renew his license get the Real ID instead. Make him a laminated photocopy to carry in his wallet along with a few dollars. Keep the real one somewhere safe or with you.
My Mom uses her state ID to withdraw cash from her bank account (she wanted to take us out to eat), to renew a CD because we were changing the account, and changing her will and trust (because her son died and he was the POA and successor trustee). An id is also needed when she has to prove that she is over 65 (good grief the lady is over 95), proof of residency, id when the National Parks pass is used or free entry because they are a patron (e.g. museum, zoo).
I liked it because it showed my Mom that she is still important in this world.
I believe the government recently came out with a Real ID. These covers both license and legal identification. At least this is what they do in my State.
The Real ID is an identification card that one can also use dual purpose as a license.
You can check out your local DMV or Senior Center and see how they work it in your State. Everyone needs an ID these days especially with all the doctor's appointments. They always ask for ID and insurance card.
Hope this helps.
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