We can't cope with Dad at home. His symptoms of paranoia are currently under control but his other symptoms are not.
Mum is living at home and my sister lives nearby but works full-time and has kids to take care of. The youngest developed major mental health issues after Dad was admitted so my sister is worried about a repeat and will have to restrict her involvement with Dad. I live in a different country.
Realistically, Mum can't cope with Dad at home but she knows he wants to come home and because she has a people pleaser personality she is struggling to say 'no' but knows it will be impossible.
My sister tries to attend all team meetings but can't always get time off work. We are going to try to arrange for me to join meetings by conference call.
What criteria is used to determine if a "deprivation of liberty" order should stay in place? Any tips on fighting to keep dad in the nursing home?
"Some people are running on the pitch..! They think it's all over! - It is now!!!"
I only ever watch rugby and even I can quote that piece of commentary.
If you're happy with this NH, and it does sound a good 'un, how's the assessment going? Is your mother getting more used to his being there? How is she feeling about plans?
Priority is safety for BOTH parents. I believe you should stand your ground as an advocate for your mum. despite her feelings to bring dad back, help her to understand the toll it would take on her health. My heart goes out to you all.