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Yesterday, I watched the Dick Van Dyke Show. It was on a local air broadcast channel.
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Shell,

I always thought George Burns was so cute!

What did your dad have to say about him?
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NHWM,
Yes, George Burns did live to be a 100. I always wanted to meet him. My dad met him because George ate at my dad's restaurant and George wanted to meet the Chef. I didn't talk to my dad for 2 whole days because he didn't get George's autograph. I was a teenager! Just imagine what it would have been worth, not that I would sell it.

I wouldn't and don't want to live to be a 100 little along 108!! The world is already going mad. Can you imagine what it will be like in 10, 20, 40, 50 yrs! Yikes!!!

Glad,
I use to watch Dick Van Dyke when I was young. I haven't watch him in yrs! I'll have to YouTube him!
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Thanks Glad for the info.

He had a cameo in the last movie about Mary Poppins. He still dances! Amazing actor and the best in physical comedy.

I thought John Ritter on Three’s Company had that knack for physical comedy too.
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Dick Van Dyke!!! Love him! I watch him every night as I am falling asleep on YouTube. This channel has all of the episodes.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5uDZbWg2Kdw&list=PLN7tufC-tRkWYIDIh2VKEwFBU-gdoJszX&index=157

Used to watch Andy Griffith and Golden Girls but both have been taken off of YouTube.
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Shell,

Betty White is 98! I think George Burns lived to 100!

Look at Roberta McCain. She died in October of this year at 108! My gosh! I can’t imagine living that long!
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NHWM,
I'll have to catch the Betty White story. It is hard to believe that she is still with us after we have lost so many good actors, singers, and comedian. I was just telling my sig-other that all great people (TV, Movies, and what not) that we grew up watching are retiring, dying off, or just getting old. It makes me sad to think how many we have lost and who will replace them "so to speak." They don't make movies or shows like they use too! That's for sure!
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EB,

I love Andy Griffith! I think everyone should have an Aunt Bea!

Maude did have dry wit. She was funny. They all were.

You’re right. Some of the new shows are not interesting.

I watch a lot on PBS. I like Smithsonian and a few others.

I do love the old reruns. I used to like Bob Newhart too. I Love Lucy and Honeymooners were funny.

Dick Van Dyke was fantastic! I still love watching Mary Poppins! Julie Andrews is adorable.
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Hello NeedHelp, I liked Maude and my mom did too. I liked her character, she had a dry sense of humor and I like her sarcasm.
I used to watch The Mary Tyler Moore Show, Dick Van Dick, That Girl , Doris Day Show. Junk is on now, can't find anything good on any more. I do watch Andy of Mayberry and Gomer Pyle.
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EB,

Sophia is my favorite! What about you? Estelle Getty was precious.

Betty was Rose, Rue was Blanche. Bea was Dorothy. Betty is the only one living.

I took drama in high school. I would have loved to play a feisty character like Sophia! LOL

I have always loved Betty White. She was adorable with Mary Tyler Moore.

She was cute on Password and Match Game.
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NeedHelp, you must have liked the Golden Girls, right?
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Just saw an ad on PBS that Betty White will be telling her story. It is coming on Christmas evening.

I just love Betty White!
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EB,

Probably so. I do have blue eyes.

Some animals have hauntingly beautiful eyes, like the Siberian huskies. I think cats have gorgeous eyes, especially Siamese cats.
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NeedHelpWithMom, I know you have blue eyes, but must have mixed up the two of you. The doggie sounds so beautiful and sweet.
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Shell,

I would like a card like that because our animals really are a part of our families.

Your dad sounds like my dad. My dad was so sweet.
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NHWM,
I used to give my dad father's day cards from my kitties. I actually found cards that say, "Happy Father's Day" and it would have on the front of the card a picture of cats or dogs and when you open it up it would state from your grand kitties or grand puppies. My dad just loved the cards.

Yup, my friend had a snow dog who didn't like snow and I have a snow kitty who doesn't like snow. That is what I get for teasing my friend about her dog!)

I hope you get to see your grand puppy!
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Shell,

That’s funny. Your friend’s dog sounds cute! I have heard of some with one blue and one brown eye. Some people have one brown eye and one blue eye too.

I don’t have grandchildren but I always watched my daughter’s old dog when she went out of town and at other times too.

I joked with her calling her dog, a little poodle, my grand puppy! I missed him when he died. He had Cushing’s disease.

Now I have a husky for a grand puppy but since she moved far away, I only see photos. He tries to catch the snow on his tongue. She sent a video. It’s cute. Plus he loves playing in the snow.

That’s hysterical that your friend’s husky didn’t like the snow!
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NHWM
I had a friend who had a Husky. He had one blue eye and one brown eye. He didn't like the snow. I use to tease her about having a snow dog who doesn't like snow. But he sure did love his jellybeans. At Easter, she would keep a bowl of jellybeans on her coffee table and her dog would help himself to one jellybean and would walk around the house chew it just to end up back into the living room and take another jellybean. He would always leave the green one in the bowl. She would tell her guess, don't eat the jellybeans on the coffee table, they belong to my dog. I can't remember what was the green jellybeans?! Her dog didn't like pickels on his hamburgers either. Every time I got him a cheeseburger and forgot to ask for no pickel he would some how get the pickel out of the burger and leave it on the floor or the seat of the car.

Dam, I miss that dog. He was so loveable and sweet. In fact, after we stop being friends I missed her dog more than her! Sad but true!!
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Just checking in here about safety. I work an essential temp job doing package processing with little social distancing but will stop at year end. Happy holidays to all for a safe season.

Patahome01
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EB,

LOL, hubby has brown eyes.

Yes, talking about my new grand puppy! He’s almost a year old.

He’s a cutie! My daughter loves him!

She says he does fine on his walks. He loves the snow! He gets along with other dogs in the neighborhood.

She’s hoping that she doesn’t see any cats in her path because huskies have a strong prey drive.
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Needhelp, I thought at first you were talking about your husbands blue eyes and then read more and realized it was about your daughters blue eyed dog .LOL.
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Polar,

I wish I could see him in person.

Yes, he has those blue eyes that are beautiful!

My daughter has blue eyes too.

His tail is so fluffy! They are sort of wolf like.

She bought him toys and a couple of NylaBones from PetSmart.

I wonder how he will do when she has to work in her office. Right now she is working remotely.

She can take him on walks several times a day now. That will change when she goes to the office.

I bet a lot of animals will have to adjust to their owners going back to work.
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NHWM- Siberian Husky is definitely one of the most beautiful dogs. I love their colors and their eyes, so wild, so wolf-like.
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My daughter’s Siberian Husky is so adorable!

The photos are absolutely precious of him playing in the snow!

My daughter seems to be loving the snow as well.

She is excited about snowboarding with her friend that lives in Vail.

Colorado is so beautiful. I haven’t been there since the girls were young, ages 4 and 11.

Now the youngest one lives in CO. We never know where our kids will live when they grow up.

The oldest one lived away for awhile too. She ended up moving back to New Orleans. She’s a ‘cat’ lover and has a couple of kitties. They are precious!
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Do a ‘Team’ or ‘Zoom’ celebration online!

My husband’s company has those ‘Team’ meetings with 500 plus people around the world!

I know lots of people have struggled during COVID.

It’s horrible to see businesses failing and families struggling to make ends meet.

Believe it or not, there are some companies like the one that my husband works for that are thriving at this time.

Of course, a lot of their products are sold to hospitals all around the globe. Their sales have increased!

So, his company has online meetings with celebrations, toasting with a beer, cocktail, wine and so on. It’s kind of funny to see.

My husband just had two of his designs patented so he and his team celebrated again.

My husband doesn’t mind working remotely at all. At his level he pretty much sat in a conference room all day in meetings anyway.

They have the executive officer meetings online now.

He also has all of his engineering team members meetings online as well.

So they are planning to have their holiday parties online too! LOL

Of course, it’s a different vibe. Normally the celebration would be at a ‘fine dining’ restaurant but hey, we are in a PANDEMIC!

This will pass. One day it will be a distant memory!
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My SIL was very happy to be able to skip their Christmas party this year too, the company is giving all the employees grocery store gift cards in lieu of the traditional meal. I heard of another business that has ordered take home meals for their employees from the company that would have normally catered their event, I think that's a fantastic idea!
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Here's a totally unconnected post, regarding Covid Christmas! My husband's annual Christmas party at the office is online, on Zoom this year in the form of a festive quiz. So I can wear a nice party dress that looks good top half up, with a pair of comfy slippers instead of painful high heels. And I don't need to think "do I look fat in this?" nor pay a fortune for a taxi ride home, nor brave the freezing cold weather. Wouldn't mind this kind of a party next Christmas too, actually!
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Thank you "AlvaDeer" for the additional important and what may be unknown information for those of us who are less familiar with the documents.

Valuable information to be sure!
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Polar Bear: The forms for advanced directive are cut and dry, but you can add a handwritten addendum. You can refuse things, and you can be specific. I am 78 and an old nurse, so I have refused many things, including any type of artificially introduced nutrition by intravenous or tube feedings, dialysis either temporary or permanent, etc. You can be very specific about what you want and for how long. For instance you can say "I will allow intubation for any acute crisis such as allergic reaction or asthma, but request to be removed from respirator after 10 days should I fail to show real improvement." You can say anything on the addendum you wish to say. For instance "I have lived a long and productive life and do not fear death. I request no heroic measures. I will not accept placement of a central line. I request hospice care and to be medicated into deep sleep below the level of dreaming, even if such administeration of drugs should hasten my death".
The most IMPORTANT thing is that yorssigned person/agent/POA who will act when you cannot agrees to your wishes, and will defend your wishes. You should discuss with ALL family what your wishes are.
So you could tell family that if you are brain injured so that you are not yourself, then you would as soon not go on, and so on. They would understand best how to act for you then, and only use them if they will act for you.
My Kaiser doctor spent 1/2 hour with me discussing what I wanted. We together made out the POLST that hangs in my home so even EMT don't try to bring me back.
You can also say "I wish to live. I want all measures the medical community can provide to me to keep me alive, no matter the conditions and limitations I live with and under".
The medical community now tends not to make money on us when we are dying, so they are more ready than they used to be when a dying person was a vending machine for doctors. Overall they are more ready to hear "I am ready now to go".
So think about what you would want, if chronically ill, if in a terrible accident and paralyzed, if older. Whatever the imagination can give you. Then think what your would REALLY WANT for yourself. Family not the question here. YOU are the question.
Write your addendum letter and attach to copies of your Advanced directive after talking to the one you appoint your health care advocate/agent. Supply copy to your Doctor. Periodcially initial with your signature, the date, that these are still your wishes.
If time comes to address all this it will be there for the doctors to read, and for decisions to be made. One and done. Once you do it it is over.
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Polar,

YOU are a lovely mom!

If I were one of your kids, I would be proud to call you mom.

All of us need to face these issues. I have not done this myself and I do think about it. I have spoken about this with my husband. We have put it off, which is foolish.

Thanks for this important reminder! We should never take life for granted.

We get distracted with all sorts of things in life but we really shouldn’t let the most important things slide. Advanced directives are necessary these days.

I took care of these things for my mom. I neglected myself on many levels. Now that I am no longer caregiver to mom, I can’t blame her as an excuse for not preparing for myself.

I am sure that you will inspire many of us with your poignant thoughts.

Thanks!
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