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Thank you Pam.

Yes, not fun.
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I hope that you feel better soon, Gershun. 🤗 Hugs 🫂!
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Thx MD.

Where I Iive we can get prescriptions from our pharmacist for uncomplicated things like bladder infections, etc. About 3 weeks ago I got an antibiotic thinking I had a bladder infection. I took the full course of medicine and thought I was better. But I've been feeling off for a while even after taking that medicine. Thursday night I was up peeing all night and all day yesterday. Then I suddenly started to feel really bad, bad back pain, dizziness, nausea, faint, feverish, getting the chills. So I didn't hesitate after that. Straight to the ER.

I am 61 by the way. Old, but not really old. :)
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Thank you Need!
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Yeah, am feeling bad from the antibiotics too but will take them till they're done.
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Gershun: Feel better.💗💗
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Thank you Llama.
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Gershun: You're very welcome.💗
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Gershun, hope you’re feeling better!
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Does anyone else feel like the only people who really understand you are the people on this forum?
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Venting, still not feeling great but today is only day 3 of the antibiotics so I'm hoping and praying. The medicine is doing a number on my stomach. I've lost 3 pounds in the last two days. One way to lose weight I guess.

I've never found anyone who really gets me Venting. Some people come close but I mostly feel like I'm alone on an island. Always have.
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I forgot to add. God gets me. :)
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“I've never found anyone who really gets me Venting. Some people come close but I mostly feel like I'm alone on an island. Always have.”

I understand what you’re saying. (((Hug)))
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Gershun. AMEN. He gets me too!
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Gershun, I surely do hope you are better. Problem with getting antibiotics for bladder infection is that without the culture you might be on the wrong drug for a particular bacteria. That pain over the kidneys in back scares me that this traveled to the kidney from bladder, esp with the fever. Dangerous, that. I hope they did a culture and you are definitely going to be on the right medication this time. Good luck, and feel better.

Venting, it's always easier to get good understanding and sympathy on Social Media, I think, than from family and close friends. There is so much more involved with close relationships and there's so much history and carried baggage. Just my own opinion.
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Thank you Alva.

They took three vials of blood when I was in ER. One when I first got there and then two more after seeing the doctor. They used both arms to withdraw the blood. I could see that the tubes had some kind of culture in them so I think they were thorough when they tested it. I sure hope I'm on the right medicine.
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Anonymous,
You needn't leave when people get mean or exclusionary.
Just wait, the mean will pass you by. It's not about you.
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Has there been another round of housecleaning here on AgingCare?🤨
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Don't really know anything Cwillie.
But good morning!
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Cwillie, I believe people were banned.
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Gershun, feel better soon! I hope you get an accurate diagnosis so you can get the right meds and be right as rain shortly.

I've had a kidney stones (and I realize this may not be your issue). My first one I had to have "dug out" surgically when it imbedded in my lower bladder. I was catheterized for this procedure so then got a horrific infection where I was peeing clots of blood - seriously THE most painful thing I've ever experienced. Those kind of infections can go sideways fast.

On a related note (and NOT to assign blame or guilt anyone)... giving private people direct access to more "serious" medications like antibiotics is just NOT a good idea. As frustrating as it can be here in the US, this is an example of why an accurate diagnosis by a medical professional is always the best route for the person. Many medications can mask other, more serious health issues.

Regardless, I sincerely wish you a full and speedy recovery!
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Gershun, speedy recovery!
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Yes, cwillie, it appears that several people went to "anon status" with a thread involving a question about alcoholic beverages for someone with anxiety. Three people will have a week of time-out it looks like. I don't know if more are involved.
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Gershun, ouch!

May The Lord touch your body and heal you quickly.
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I wasn't sure if the people involved left voluntarily or not.... but then we never are. Frankly I'm glad the admins are following through with the policy to shut down those kind of debates.
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If someone leaves voluntarily they will not have previous comments shown as being posted by "anonymous". If, say, I leave AC voluntarily my old posts still will show as "Alvadeer". If I am on a timeout my old posts will all show as "anonymous". If I am ushered out the door permanently my old posts may even disappear completely, I think. even to private messaging.
I think that's the way of it. If I am wrong hopefully AC admins will correct.

I agree with you cwillie. I think when a thread descends into personal argument, instead of giving honest advice, it harms AC overall.
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Gershun,

How are you feeling today?
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So, do you think that it is our human nature to defend our position on a topic?

‘Live and let live’ isn’t a common theme, especially on the internet, television or any public platform.

Many people will endlessly debate a topic until they feel their point is understood, or until it becomes utterly ridiculous. It’s possible that this is done subconsciously or deliberately.

I am finding that the older I become, I truly don’t care what others think or feel and I don’t expect them to care about what I think or feel. I also find that my sense of humor is becoming a bit warped at times! LOL 😆

I read a cartoon recently that made me giggle.

A husband is sitting at his computer and the wife asks, “Are you coming to bed?”

The husband says, “I can’t. This is important.”

The wife says, “What’s so important?”

Husband says, “Someone is wrong on the internet.”
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Most of you know that I have two daughters.

My youngest daughter was living in Colorado for awhile. She moved shortly after she graduated college.

Anyway, she was in a relationship in Denver but they had opposite schedules. She worked days. He worked nights. They rarely saw each other. She decided to come back to Louisiana and work remotely for awhile.

She fell in love with Colorado and knew that she would return to Denver one day. She occasionally visits her friends in Denver.

Awhile ago she attended a birthday party for a friend in Denver and met a new guy. She seems to be happy with him.

He has visited her several times and she has visited him as well. I don’t know how these long distance relationships fare out in the long run.

I worked with a few women who refused to leave when their husbands were transferred to a different state. One woman said that if she had to live with her husband full time she would be divorced! LOL 😂

We have not met this new guy. We are going to meet him on Labor Day weekend. They are going to stop by our house before taking a trip to the gulf coast.

It’s funny, he has been to Miami before but not the panhandle section of Florida. My daughter says that he is calling it ‘northern’ Florida. 😝 hahaha, instead of the panhandle.

As long as she is happy, I am happy. I wonder if either of my daughters are going to marry one day. They aren’t in a rush and I think that’s good. It’s their life and if they never marry it’s fine with me. I actually love their independent spirit.

As much as I would adore having a grandchild I don’t say anything about it to them. I have friends that have pressured their kids to marry and have kids. I don’t think that’s fair to their children.
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Need, the news in AZ calls the panhandle of Florida northern Florida because we think of the panhandle as being in Texas. It would be confusing if both got referred to by the same name.
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