I have been taking care of my Mom who has alzheimers/dementia for 5 years. I have been living in her house. I am finally at my wits end and it is no longer safe for her to live at home and I need to place her. Since she's been requiring 24/7 care I don't have a very good job. Can avoid the nursing home I decide on taking her home which has become our home? How? Thanks to anyone who has gone thru this with a loved one before that can offer advice and help!