What is you belief.? As my mom was in the hospice bed & the nurse said her death was imminent within 48 hrs. Mom was only mumbling! You could not understand one word. Than a few hours before she passed she yelled. (WELP I"M IN LINE ) With great tears in my eyes I said (what are u in line for the grocery store ?) after that she just mumbled & than passed 2 hrs later. Mom was allergic to alot of meds so she was not on morphine or any heavy duty painkiller. she was on a phenatol patch & ativan . I know this was not caused by meds. please tell me if any ones loved ones had any experiences like this , I really need to know.
I do not know what you believe in, but be assured that there is a Heaven and a Hell. If you believe in one, you have to believe in both, If there is a Up there has to be a Down. Isn't it reassuring that God is waiting for your loved ones. It can give peace to all concerned. Just make sure that they know where they are going. If they don't and you are not secure with getting them to understand, find a Christian, pastor, or any God fearing person who can lead her in the right direction. Knowing my parents are off for a party in Heaven is so peaceful. Hope you feel reassured God is Alive, He loves us and is waiting for us in Heaven with all of our loved ones to greet us. Hope this helps. God bless you
I do not know what you believe in, but be assured that there is a Heaven and a Hell. If you believe in one, you have to believe in both, If there is a Up there has to be a Down. Isn't it reassuring that God is waiting for your loved ones. It can give peace to all concerned. Just make sure that they know where they are going. If they don't and you are not secure with them to understand, find a Christian, paster,
I too am sorry for your loss. I wholeheartedly believe in life after LIFE as you put it. I'm Christian, so I believe the good Lord will bring us home when it is time. My mother-in-law is currently in the mumbling nonsense phase. Her nurse told me yesterday after I told her about something my MIL was mumbling the day before that it seems like it is close to her time now. While I am not God and therefore can't say when it is anybody's time to go, I do think that it is possible that my MIL may be seeing her own relatives lately. She was talking to her dad that passed away many years ago just the other day. My husband stays up more at night, so he always hears her, and she tells him about how her dad was waiting and she would like it if he is there(which I assume means Heaven).
I also have a caregiver that comes in to assist me every once and a while, and she has had the same type of experience with her loved one that passed from the same disease. She told me that she truly believes that patients do see people and have a valid experience with them. There have been times in my own life when I know someone must have been with me, even though I personally couldn't see them there, like a guardian angel.
I know my MIL will be with God when her time comes, so while there is a part of me that keeps mourning for her and the way she is living right now everyday, I do know she will be in a "much" better place when she goes home to be with the Lord. God bless you and your family. I know how it feels to think the things you are thinking about all of this too. It is hard to witness because of some of the things they say about death, but comforting to think that just maybe my MIL's family is there for her so she can have some comfort through the late stages of the awful disease of Alzheimer's.
Yes, there is LIFE after life ... as one who was literally pulled back after "dying" on the OR table - your loved ones are there - I was so desperate to touch my mother, who died when I was a child. I hated being brought back, but God had other plans for me. When my husband's time was near I was able to literally "walk" with him - he saw his sister, his mother saw her husband. It seems to be not as isolated as some believe. For me personally, knowing were my husband was going, was very comforting despite the pain. I knew he would be safe and in loving hands.. and we will see each other again.
God bless you, and take care of yourself.
I've heard other stories of people seeing relatives and friends waiting for them at the end of their journey. What a wonderful feeling of being together again that must give. As a believer, it makes me know that the circle of a family is never truly broken. The spirit of love is never ending.
God bless!