I just wanted to thank everyone for their thoughtful guidance even if it wasn't to a question that I posted. I have been reading posts here for over a year to get prepared for my journey with my mom and dementia.
My mom successfully moved into a beautiful AL apartment yesterday even though it broke her heart and mine. It was the hardest day of my life and the grief is tough. Your posts made me realize that this course of action is for the best because I cannot be a caregiver-I want to be her daughter.
I will continue to read posts for additional insight and guidance.
Thank you!
Best of luck to you!
Your mom has said goodbye to her former life but she is also saying hello to being cared for around the clock. This must bring each of you peace.
Times of transitioning are always the hardest. Once she is settled in she will adjust and so will you.
It was so sweet of you to thank everyone on this forum. You’re certainly welcome.
Please stick around on the forum to share your experience with others. You may still have questions about your mom’s situation and others here who have experienced similar situations will be able to assist you.
Best of luck .
Thanks for letting us know that the forum helped you. Remember that you also have experiences that will help others. Feel free to share your wisdom as a long distance caregiver who helped her LO make a tough transition. There are many transitions in aging.
Welcome to the forum.