My 98 year old uncle was rushed to the hospital after a fall at home. No family was allowed to ride in the ambulance. Once there they were told he had stabilized only for everything to detoriate within a few hours and he passed away alone. My aunt is obviously distraught. They were married over 70 years. Besides the great loss she wishes she could have been beside him as he lay dying. They were not notified until it was too late. Because they live in a suburb of NY we cannot go for the service as also other family cannot which might have given her a little happiness. At least 2 of their 3 children are nearby. Their priest has allowed them to have a simple service with immediate family members.
This is heartbreaking. I am so very sorry. Cry. Tears are healing. Grieve. You are a caring and loving woman. I appreciate that. Everyone should care as much as you do. 💗
They were only allowed to have10 people at the service. Especially for your aunt, please tell your cousins to be very, very careful if they have a memorial.
I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. It is heartbreaking.
Very sorry for your loss 💗.
Perhaps there could be a Memorial, tribute to his life, after the pandemic has been controlled?
Family all upset they can't all convene for a funeral at this time.
A FB family page was opened, and those that care to do so, have shared funny/sentimental memories of this beautiful woman .. it's been helpful .. at least so folks can reach out to each other in this time.
I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your uncle, the circumstances surrounding his passing - and the pain you are feeling on behalf of your Aunt.
As everyone says - these are unprecedented times. A new reality that no one - beyond the medical expects that study and predict such things - was prepared for.
How to act, how to feel, how to comfort others during this time - I guess, we’re all gonna have to just figure it out as we go.
But one thing that remains the same - is the thoughts, actions and words that come from a sincere and loving heart - those are what mean the most at a time like this for you, your aunt and all of your family.
This is what has ALWAYS meant the most. That hasn’t changed. Bless your kind and loving heart - and take care.
May God give all of you grieving mercies and strength during this difficult time.
Who could have imagined that our world would change overnight. Such a difficult time for families losing loved ones.