John L. Roberts, J.D., is an Elder Law Attorney serving clients in Hampden County, MA. After practicing for 15 years, he confronted the challenges of family caregiving when his own father developed dementia. The experience transformed his practice, enabling him to help clients who are family caregivers from a place of true understanding.

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Medicaid question?


Many people decide to use Will substitutes like Joint Ownership of bank accounts, to avoid Probate. Did your uncle designate you as a... see more

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I have 4 parents that I’m caring for at the same time. They don’t have a lot of money but they don’t qualify f...


Here is a checklist of possible sources for payment and reimbursement for your caregiving work: 1 - At-home care programs provided by... see more

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Can I get paid to care for my grandmother?


Wy not talk to an elder law attorney near you? Medicaid home care programs may be able to pay you for the care you provide. If your... see more

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My parents are receiving Medicaid and home care aid. If they move in with me, will they lose their benefits?


Why not talk with an elder law attorney in your state? Your parents may be able to direct payment from their Medicaid home care program to... see more

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Mom (62) receives SSDI, Medicare & Medicaid. Aunt died and left her 33k from her pension and more will come la...


You mentioned that you will be talking with elder law attorneys in your state, and that is the first step toward getting your circumstances... see more

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My parents will not budge on signing a POA or even fill out an advance directive. Any advice?


Sometimes an appeal to parents' interest in saving money can overcome reluctance to share control of financial and business matters.... see more

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My parents got a settlement after an accident. They are on Medicare. Any advice?


Who paid the settlement to your parents? Did Medicare pay any hospital or medical bills caused by the accident? If Medicare has paid... see more

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Are there different pay for aid and attendance?


The key concept to remember for VA Aid & Attendance is "reimbursement." The VA is looking to see that you are spending so... see more

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Is it customary/typical for sensitive info (i.e. SSN, etc.) to appear on a checklist for initial attorney cons...


It is not necessary to disclose your identifying numbers, such as Social Security numbers or bank account numbers, to an elder law attorney... see more

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My husband has been on the deed to Mom’s house since 2004 and became her POA at the time when she became legal...


In your follow up, you mentioned that son has taken care of mom for several years. Medicaid has a caregiver exception that protects the... see more

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DPOA in depth; can my Mom call the lawyers to get an understanding of what she signed without my sister being...


Your questions involve many circumstances and emotions that can become escalated during times of transition and declining health. One way... see more

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If you have a POA but do not agree with the POA and you are competent, alert and oriented who has decision mak...


Talk with an elder law attorney in your state. In my state (Massachusetts) a person may revoke a health care proxy by notifying the agent... see more

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I have a former neighbor, who listed me as her DPOA for for a major surgery-17 years and several moves later s...


You are not the first person who has been designated by a friend or neighbor who has unreasonable ideas about bestowing financial and... see more

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What about a revocable trust, does that help at all, i.e. Medicaid, LTC, etc.


Funds in a revocable trust (often called a Revocable Living Trust or "RLT") are available to the Grantor (the person who set up... see more

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How do I remove a parent with dementia as trustee of family trust?


Does the Trust document contain instructions on how to handle the Trustee's lack of competence. Is there an incompetent trustee clause?... see more

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My mom doesn't have a power of attorney, guardianship and other important documents in place for her well bein...


As other posters point out, answers depend on your Mom's current competence. The primary purpose of a Durable Power of Attorney is to... see more

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Would an Eldercare Attorney or the Trust Department of my bank be better to act as the Executor of my Will? N...


Don't tell us here on the forum, but the answer to your question depends on the value of your estate, the type of assets that you own,... see more

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Who determines caregiver pay when POA is the caregiver? Any tips?


As mentioned by another community member, an elder who pays a family member for care could be disqualified from Medicaid coverage if they... see more

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How can I become power of attorney for my father who has late stage dementia?


Talk with an Elder Law attorney in your state. If your father has lost capacity to make financial or health care decisions, you will need... see more

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Can the contents of a will be included in a power of attorney?


Your Will should be coordinated with your Power of Attorney, but don't confuse the purposes of these two essential planning documents.... see more

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